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SLT029: Beginning Our Simple Journey, & Finally an “About Us” Video
Honestly, we had other plans for this week’s show, but we got a bit sidetracked. Here’s how: We finally got around to doing our “About Us” video for the website! When we first started the show 6 months ago, we put in a placeholder that said something like “we’ll be doing a About Us video soon.” Well,“soon” apparently is relative!
If you can’t see this video in your RSS reader or email, then click here.
We had a “found” day this week as we were supposed to close on selling our land but the closing date fell through…now we’re scheduled for tomorrow. So, we figured, let’s do our About Us video! And as we worked through what we wanted to talk about, the whole back story of how we got to this point came flowing out.
Our Combined Topic: Beginning Our Simple Journey
Now, we’ve talked about some of this in some of the really early episodes of the show, but we thought it was time to cover the whole back story. We thought maybe some of you would find it interesting to know how we got here and maybe some of you would see your story as a lot like ours, in some ways.
Besides, as much fun as we have with the show, we want it to be more than just “The Tech Guy and Organizer Show.” That stuff is great and has its place, but there’s more to living a simple life in the modern world than that. And there’s more to us, too. So we figured, let’s tell our story.
The “Lead Up”
So, this is how it goes:
We’re a retired military family
That included lots of moving, our schedules dictated to us by the mission, etc
That said, we wouldn’t change our lives in the military for anything!
We both have experience in the corporate world
We were living the typical American consumer-driven lifestyle. You know….that typical “deferred retirement” lifestyle where you work until you’re 65+ then hopefully are still healthy enough to enjoy retirement. You work 5 days or more straight to pay for your 2 days off…dreading Mondays so much you get the Sundays night blues. Note: Learn more about “deferred retirement” and planning your lifestyle from Tim Ferris’s fantastic book The 4 Hour Work Week
Started our lifestyle businesses: Vanessa is a Professional Organizer, Dan does business development for select clients. Still, we were on that deferred retirement track. But in the meantime, we subconsciously had been downsizing and simplifying our lives based on life events…like getting married…having another child….going to a single income household by choice so I could stay home with the baby…moving twice…etc.
Beginnings of Change:
But even though we were making some positive changes…
We were still following the deferred retirement rules.
We had dreams for our big Dream Home
We even bought the perfect lot to build it on overlooking a state natural area! It was going to be big and beautiful!
And it was going to have all the latest stuff…we were going to do our part to help boost the down economy!
But in the backs of our minds the wheels were already turning.
It’s Out There!
And it all changed one day on a trip to Portland last year for a conference.
As we were on final approach into PDX flying right over the river by the airport, I leaned over to Vanessa and said….”I’m not sure what we’ll take back from the conference this year, but I know this… I really, really want to simplify our lives.”
And there it was….verbalized…out in the open….and we were both on board!
From that point on we really started to question and evaluate our life together and what it could look like.
And that’s why we shot our About Us video in Bandera, TX along the Medina River.
We love to go there and just float in the river, with the cypress trees providing us a little shade and a cold drink to quench our thirst on a hot Texas day.
One day as we floated in the river we decided we wanted more days like this…where we could just drop what we were doing, grab some tubes and enjoy.
It’s hard to do that while running the Rat Race…so we opted for something different.
We planned our work around our lifestyle, not our lifestyle around our work.
Really Getting Started:
As we began to reshape our Life Plan with a focus on simplicity in our lives, we wanted to find a community of people to learn from and share with. But honestly, we felt sort of “caught in the middle.”
On one side we have the vast majority of the Western World which is caught up in all out consumerism
On the other side there’s minimalism which we feel some attraction to but just aren’t there yet.
We fall somewhere in between. We do like “stuff”…but good quality stuff, and not in excess.
We like…simple!
The Start of “Simple Life Together”
So that’s why we started the show and the website….
To share our journey with others interested in simplicity
What goes right, what goes wrong
Share tips, help each other out along the way, motivation, inspiration
We can challenge each other with things like Edit and Forget It
Expect Some Bumps in the Road:
So, if you’re getting ready to simplify, know this:
Others won’t get it: Check out the “Crabs in a Bucket” story in SimpleLifeTogether.com/004
Example: Bank insisted on planning for long-term retirement, not understanding that we ARE retired
They wanted us to save long-term for our “dream home”
Our reality is paying cash for our “dream home” in 5 years!
Don’t be surprised if people tell you “You’re missing out on the best money making years of your lives.”
Who says?
We work with great clients who we choose to work with because we believe in them and their cause, they pay us fairly and it’s on win/win terms.
We decide our schedule and my commute from home to our World Shedquarters is 19 steps.
We’re there to take the kids to school, pick them up, go to their important life events…and just be present.
And we can do family fun time when we want.
Feels like to us we’re getting to enjoy the best years of our lives now! And we have enough money to get by, thanks!
The American Dream
An American businessman was standing at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish.
“How long did it take you to catch them?” The American asked.
“Only a little while.” The Mexican replied.
“Why don’t you stay out longer and catch more fish?” The American then asked.
“I caught enough to support my family’s needs, señor.” the fisherman said.
“But,” the businessman then asked, “What do you do with the rest of your time?”
The Mexican fisherman said, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take a siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine or cerveza and play guitar with my amigos, I have a full and busy life, senor.”
The American scoffed, “I have a Harvard MBA and you sure could use my help. Here’s what you should do. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds you buy a bigger boat and hire a crew. With the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats, eventually you would have a whole fleet of fishing boats.”
“Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the consumers, eventually opening your own can factory. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually NYC where you will run your expanding enterprise.”
The Mexican fisherman asked, “But senor, how long will this all take?”
To which the American replied, “If you work hard enough, you could do it in 15-20 years.”
“But what then, senor?”
The American laughed and said, “That’s the best part. When the time is right you would announce an IPO (Initial Public Offering) and sell your company stock to the public! You’ll become very, very rich, you would make millions.”
“Millions, senor? Then what?”
The American said slowly, “Then you would retire and enjoy life. Maybe move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take a siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and cerveza and play your guitar with your amigos…”
Now, we’re an All-American family…but that’s not what we’d call our dream.
But that story does kinda sum up why we’ve chosen to live the way we do.
And so, with “simplifying our lives” as a lens, over the past year, here are some of the results so far:
We’ve:
Really focused on the 5 Pillars we’ve talked about in earlier episodes: Faith, Family, Fitness, Finances, and Future
Made things more within reach. In the deferred retirement plan we:
Planned for a someday retirement in our (then) big dream home
Actually bought land for our dream home at $35K per acre
Now under our current lifestyle we:
Have definite and defined goals and timelines within 5 years
Sold our land (actually closed tomorrow) and using some of the cash for short term business goals, some for medium-term personal goals
Have gotten used to the fact that essentially we’re “working retired”…doing what we want to do.
We’ve designed our work around our lifestyle and not out lifestyle around our work
Even just having that mentality takes some adjustment.
Now that’s not to say we’ve done everything right! So let’s discuss some victories and some challenges…
Things we’ve done right:
Begin with the end in mind… Why? Because you can define your goals and develop a roadmap to reach them!
Paying off debt
Struggles:
That feeling that we “should” be working or doing more. Is that just programmed into us???
Not finding a lot of people that understand our goals and desires
Vanessa: Trying not to brag about how good it feels!
Dan: Overcoming the “man thing” that I should be working at a job bringing home the “big bucks”
Vanessa: Feeling drawn to minimalism but knowing that I still like “new stuff”
Dan: Wanting to go smaller and smaller. I’ve been hooked on watching videos of “tiny houses” and smaller homes.
So, I guess that’s why it’s called a journey as we’re having little adventures along the way. For all of you who’ve joined us here on the show, it’s great to know we’re not as alone as we felt at the beginning, that’s for sure. It’s great to have like-minded folks to share with and learn from.
That’s the backstory. Hopefully if you’re considering your own journey it’ll give you some insight, understanding, or maybe even some inspiration as you chart your course.
Thing Segment
Vanessa’s Thing: Spending time with family floating on the river!
Dan’s Thing: Our British Berkefeld Water Filtration System, aka “The Berkey”
You can check out our new About Us video here!
Announcements:
Google Drive Tutorial
Yay! The Google Drive Tutorial is now available for purchase! This tutorial is just over an hour long and focuses on all the fundamentals of how to use Google Drive for creating, sharing, and storing documents using Google’s free, full-fledged office suite. This tutorial will be available at the discounted price of just $7.99 until 30 June 2013, when it will increase to $9.99. Either way, it’s a bargain! In this introduction, you’ll learn how to create text documents, spreadsheets, presentations, drawings, and even forms and surveys! So, don’t wait to pay full price! You can have immediate access to Dan’s 1 hour+ windshield tour of Google Drive right now! Simply click here or go to SimpleLifeTogether.com/GoogleDrive. Plus, if you’re not completely satisfied I’ll give you your money back. So, no clutter and no risk…simple!
Links:
Support Charity Water Through Your Amazon.com Purchases
British Berkefeld Water Filtration System, aka The Berkey
Google Drive Tutorial
The Edit & Forget It Challenge
The 4 Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferris
The Crab’s in a Bucket Story
Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and leave a review in the iTunes store! It helps others find the show! Thanks!
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Honestly, we had other plans for this week’s show, but we got a bit sidetracked. Here’s how: We finally got around to doing our “About Us” video for the website! When we first started the show 6 months ago, we put in a placeholder that said something like “we’ll be doing a About Us video soon.” Well,“soon” apparently is relative!
If you can’t see this video in your RSS reader or email, then click here.
We had a “found” day this week as we were supposed to close on selling our land but the closing date fell through…now we’re scheduled for tomorrow. So, we figured, let’s do our About Us video! And as we worked through what we wanted to talk about, the whole back story of how we got to this point came flowing out.
Our Combined Topic: Beginning Our Simple Journey
Now, we’ve talked about some of this in some of the really early episodes of the show, but we thought it was time to cover the whole back story. We thought maybe some of you would find it interesting to know how we got here and maybe some of you would see your story as a lot like ours, in some ways.
Besides, as much fun as we have with the show, we want it to be more than just “The Tech Guy and Organizer Show.” That stuff is great and has its place, but there’s more to living a simple life in the modern world than that. And there’s more to us, too. So we figured, let’s tell our story.
The “Lead Up”
So, this is how it goes:
We’re a retired military family
That included lots of moving, our schedules dictated to us by the mission, etc
That said, we wouldn’t change our lives in the military for anything!
We both have experience in the corporate world
We were living the typical American consumer-driven lifestyle. You know….that typical “deferred retirement” lifestyle where you work until you’re 65+ then hopefully are still healthy enough to enjoy retirement. You work 5 days or more straight to pay for your 2 days off…dreading Mondays so much you get the Sundays night blues. Note: Learn more about “deferred retirement” and planning your lifestyle from Tim Ferris’s fantastic book The 4 Hour Work Week
Started our lifestyle businesses: Vanessa is a Professional Organizer, Dan does business development for select clients. Still, we were on that deferred retirement track. But in the meantime, we subconsciously had been downsizing and simplifying our lives based on life events…like getting married…having another child….going to a single income household by choice so I could stay home with the baby…moving twice…etc.
Beginnings of Change:
But even though we were making some positive changes…
We were still following the deferred retirement rules.
We had dreams for our big Dream Home
We even bought the perfect lot to build it on overlooking a state natural area! It was going to be big and beautiful!
And it was going to have all the latest stuff…we were going to do our part to help boost the down economy!
But in the backs of our minds the wheels were already turning.
It’s Out There!
And it all changed one day on a trip to Portland last year for a conference.
As we were on final approach into PDX flying right over the river by the airport, I leaned over to Vanessa and said….”I’m not sure what we’ll take back from the conference this year, but I know this… I really, really want to simplify our lives.”
And there it was….verbalized…out in the open….and we were both on board!
From that point on we really started to question and evaluate our life together and what it could look like.
And that’s why we shot our About Us video in Bandera, TX along the Medina River.
We love to go there and just float in the river, with the cypress trees providing us a little shade and a cold drink to quench our thirst on a hot Texas day.
One day as we floated in the river we decided we wanted more days like this…where we could just drop what we were doing, grab some tubes and enjoy.
It’s hard to do that while running the Rat Race…so we opted for something different.
We planned our work around our lifestyle, not our lifestyle around our work.
Really Getting Started:
As we began to reshape our Life Plan with a focus on simplicity in our lives, we wanted to find a community of people to learn from and share with. But honestly, we felt sort of “caught in the middle.”
On one side we have the vast majority of the Western World which is caught up in all out consumerism
On the other side there’s minimalism which we feel some attraction to but just aren’t there yet.
We fall somewhere in between. We do like “stuff”…but good quality stuff, and not in excess.
We like…simple!
The Start of “Simple Life Together”
So that’s why we started the show and the website….
To share our journey with others interested in simplicity
What goes right, what goes wrong
Share tips, help each other out along the way, motivation, inspiration
We can challenge each other with things like Edit and Forget It
Expect Some Bumps in the Road:
So, if you’re getting ready to simplify, know this:
Others won’t get it: Check out the “Crabs in a Bucket” story in SimpleLifeTogether.com/004
Example: Bank insisted on planning for long-term retirement, not understanding that we ARE retired
They wanted us to save long-term for our “dream home”
Our reality is paying cash for our “dream home” in 5 years!
Don’t be surprised if people tell you “You’re missing out on the best money making years of your lives.”
Who says?
We work with great clients who we choose to work with because we believe in them and their cause, they pay us fairly and it’s on win/win terms.
We decide our schedule and my commute from home to our World Shedquarters is 19 steps.
We’re there to take the kids to school, pick them up, go to their important life events…and just be present.
And we can do family fun time when we want.
Feels like to us we’re getting to enjoy the best years of our lives now! And we have enough money to get by, thanks!
The American Dream
An American businessman was standing at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish.
“How long did it take you to catch them?” The American asked.
“Only a little while.” The Mexican replied.
“Why don’t you stay out longer and catch more fish?” The American then asked.
“I caught enough to support my family’s needs, señor.” the fisherman said.
“But,” the businessman then asked, “What do you do with the rest of your time?”
The Mexican fisherman said, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take a siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine or cerveza and play guitar with my amigos, I have a full and busy life, senor.”
The American scoffed, “I have a Harvard MBA and you sure could use my help. Here’s what you should do. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds you buy a bigger boat and hire a crew. With the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats, eventually you would have a whole fleet of fishing boats.”
“Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the consumers, eventually opening your own can factory. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually NYC where you will run your expanding enterprise.”
The Mexican fisherman asked, “But senor, how long will this all take?”
To which the American replied, “If you work hard enough, you could do it in 15-20 years.”
“But what then, senor?”
The American laughed and said, “That’s the best part. When the time is right you would announce an IPO (Initial Public Offering) and sell your company stock to the public! You’ll become very, very rich, you would make millions.”
“Millions, senor? Then what?”
The American said slowly, “Then you would retire and enjoy life. Maybe move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take a siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and cerveza and play your guitar with your amigos…”
Now, we’re an All-American family…but that’s not what we’d call our dream.
But that story does kinda sum up why we’ve chosen to live the way we do.
And so, with “simplifying our lives” as a lens, over the past year, here are some of the results so far:
We’ve:
Really focused on the 5 Pillars we’ve talked about in earlier episodes: Faith, Family, Fitness, Finances, and Future
Made things more within reach. In the deferred retirement plan we:
Planned for a someday retirement in our (then) big dream home
Actually bought land for our dream home at $35K per acre
Now under our current lifestyle we:
Have definite and defined goals and timelines within 5 years
Sold our land (actually closed tomorrow) and using some of the cash for short term business goals, some for medium-term personal goals
Have gotten used to the fact that essentially we’re “working retired”…doing what we want to do.
We’ve designed our work around our lifestyle and not out lifestyle around our work
Even just having that mentality takes some adjustment.
Now that’s not to say we’ve done everything right! So let’s discuss some victories and some challenges…
Things we’ve done right:
Begin with the end in mind… Why? Because you can define your goals and develop a roadmap to reach them!
Paying off debt
Struggles:
That feeling that we “should” be working or doing more. Is that just programmed into us???
Not finding a lot of people that understand our goals and desires
Vanessa: Trying not to brag about how good it feels!
Dan: Overcoming the “man thing” that I should be working at a job bringing home the “big bucks”
Vanessa: Feeling drawn to minimalism but knowing that I still like “new stuff”
Dan: Wanting to go smaller and smaller. I’ve been hooked on watching videos of “tiny houses” and smaller homes.
So, I guess that’s why it’s called a journey as we’re having little adventures along the way. For all of you who’ve joined us here on the show, it’s great to know we’re not as alone as we felt at the beginning, that’s for sure. It’s great to have like-minded folks to share with and learn from.
That’s the backstory. Hopefully if you’re considering your own journey it’ll give you some insight, understanding, or maybe even some inspiration as you chart your course.
Thing Segment
Vanessa’s Thing: Spending time with family floating on the river!
Dan’s Thing: Our British Berkefeld Water Filtration System, aka “The Berkey”
You can check out our new About Us video here!
Announcements:
Google Drive Tutorial
Yay! The Google Drive Tutorial is now available for purchase! This tutorial is just over an hour long and focuses on all the fundamentals of how to use Google Drive for creating, sharing, and storing documents using Google’s free, full-fledged office suite. This tutorial will be available at the discounted price of just $7.99 until 30 June 2013, when it will increase to $9.99. Either way, it’s a bargain! In this introduction, you’ll learn how to create text documents, spreadsheets, presentations, drawings, and even forms and surveys! So, don’t wait to pay full price! You can have immediate access to Dan’s 1 hour+ windshield tour of Google Drive right now! Simply click here or go to SimpleLifeTogether.com/GoogleDrive. Plus, if you’re not completely satisfied I’ll give you your money back. So, no clutter and no risk…simple!
Links:
Support Charity Water Through Your Amazon.com Purchases
British Berkefeld Water Filtration System, aka The Berkey
Google Drive Tutorial
The Edit & Forget It Challenge
The 4 Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferris
The Crab’s in a Bucket Story
Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and leave a review in the iTunes store! It helps others find the show! Thanks!