On this episode we talk about “small talk.”  We discuss how  to increase your comfort when going to a social outing and manage the anxiety that can come with it.  We also tried changing our recording rig.  I didn’t hit record, so there’s no video on this episode.  Sorry.

Small Talk Tactics Show Notes;

* Know that others may be just as uncomfortable, shy, and unfamiliar as you.

* Make your focus about others and not about yourself.  Try these 4 magic words  “…and what about you?”

* Check your body language.  93% of communication is nonverbal. 38% is tone and 55% body language.

* Preparation by knowing what you are getting yourself into.  Ask question like; Why are you there?  What should you expect?  How can you prepare?

* Focus on making  a good first & last impression.

* Find interesting ways to talk about what you do.

* Dress for success.

* Look for opportunities to provide compliments & appreciation.

* Find common ground with things all people encounter.

* Connect with people who are alone.

* Balance your comments between observations, asking questions, & personal disclosure.

* Never be mean to to anyone.  It will make you the villain to someone.

* Give your full attention.  It will silence your mind.