I don't think anyone should condone the act of betrayal in any relationship. Jennefer talked to me how she found out about the affair her ex-boyfriend had with her friend. When I was listening, I couldn't understand what the boy was thinking. But it didn't matter.
What matter was that Jennefer had already forgiven him and let go of this hurtful past. If you listened, I was having a hard time trying to ask about her story, so all credits to her for having that courage. If there is one thing I learnt, it is to forgive and let go when the damage has been done. It couldn't hurt more when you let go.
Listen to the full conversation here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6586CgeMD0srbpiPdZl3Xy?si=l1DJIfEpTlOQpqiTxOMgdQ