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What if the very thing you’ve been taught to avoid… is actually the key to your freedom?
In this episode, So Selfish, we unpack the idea of choosing yourself—fully, boldly, and without guilt. I explore how many women have been conditioned to prioritize others at their own expense, constantly negotiating their dreams through the lens of how it will affect the next person.
But what if “selfishness” isn’t a flaw… but a form of liberation?
This conversation dives into how reclaiming your desires, your time, and your vision can become an act of deconstruction—breaking down the societal expectations and limiting identities placed on women. It’s about unlearning the need to shrink, overextend, and self-abandon just to be seen as “good.”
If you’ve ever felt torn between who you are and who you’ve been told to be, this episode is your permission slip to choose yourself—unapologetically.
Because maybe… being “selfish” is exactly what your purpose requires.
By Sihle JaftaWhat if the very thing you’ve been taught to avoid… is actually the key to your freedom?
In this episode, So Selfish, we unpack the idea of choosing yourself—fully, boldly, and without guilt. I explore how many women have been conditioned to prioritize others at their own expense, constantly negotiating their dreams through the lens of how it will affect the next person.
But what if “selfishness” isn’t a flaw… but a form of liberation?
This conversation dives into how reclaiming your desires, your time, and your vision can become an act of deconstruction—breaking down the societal expectations and limiting identities placed on women. It’s about unlearning the need to shrink, overextend, and self-abandon just to be seen as “good.”
If you’ve ever felt torn between who you are and who you’ve been told to be, this episode is your permission slip to choose yourself—unapologetically.
Because maybe… being “selfish” is exactly what your purpose requires.