Episode #25: So You Think You Missed God? 1. How to Get Back on Track
- Acknowledge your sin, and repent. (1 John 1:9 – "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us.")
- Repentance isn't about shame—it's about realigning with God's will.
- Don't be drastic.
- Avoid making radical decisions out of fear or guilt.
- Example: Don't quit your job, leave your family, and move to the mountains for six months.
- Family is first. (1 Timothy 5:8 – "If anyone does not provide for his family, he has denied the faith.")
- Your first ministry is your home—God will not ask you to neglect it.
2. Spend Time in Prayer and Seek God's Direction
- Prepare for prayer:
- Have your Bible, a notepad, and a pen ready.
- Expect to write down what God reveals to you.
- Talk to your spouse about what you believe God is saying.
- Your spouse is a key partner in discernment. (Ecclesiastes 4:9 – "Two are better than one.")
3. Unbelief is Removed Through Prayer and Fasting
- Matthew 17:21 – "This kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting."
- Fasting isn't just about not eating—it's about spiritual focus and discipline.
- Consider a time of true fasting.
- This is a time to set aside distractions and focus solely on hearing God.
- Jesus' example of fasting:
- He went to a secluded place (Luke 5:16).
- He often went alone to pray (Matthew 14:23).
- His fasting was intentional and focused.
4. Put Aside the Opinions of Others
- After fasting, come together with your spouse to discuss what the Lord revealed.
- If your spouse disagrees, don't argue—ask God to work on their heart. (Proverbs 21:1 – "The king's heart is in the hand of the Lord.")
- Also ask God to work on your heart—you may have misunderstood Him.
- Do not get out of agreement with your spouse.
- Unity in marriage is crucial for walking in God's will. (Matthew 18:19 – "If two of you agree on earth concerning anything, it will be done.")
5. Strengthen Your Ability to Hear God's Voice
- Start testing your ability to hear God on small things.
- Look for things to ask Him that are measurable but won't cause harm if you're wrong.
- Ask God for guidance on practical matters.
- Example: How to fix something, where to find something lost, or when to reach out to someone.
- This builds confidence in recognizing His voice. (John 10:27 – "My sheep hear My voice.")
Final Thoughts
- If you feel like you've missed God, don't panic—simply realign.
- Repent, pray, and seek His voice with humility.
- Don't make drastic moves—God leads through peace, not fear.
- Stay in unity with your spouse and ask God to confirm His direction.
- Learn to hear God in small ways so you can trust Him in bigger ones.