Welcome back to this super deep and insightful conversation with UCL's coolest mech eng guy, HD! Also, this part has some extra spice - we are also joined by one of my oldest friends ... Naseela! 

In this episode we continue to talk about how you should consider what's best for you ('selfish') but to always be mindful of how your actions affect others around you. We also emphasise the importance of being proactive in life especially when it comes to university and interactions with academic staff. 

In this part, we talk about what we consider to be a mature, respectful and kind way to end 'just' a situationship or an official relationship. As brutal as it is, the way someone leaves you really tells you alot about their true personality and feelings towards you.

Furthermore, we talk about how common it is for people to call individuals ‘crazy’ or 'delusional' both of which are very hurtful remarks which are most commonly used in a 'gaslighting' manoeuvre. 

It's interesting to hear HD's response to this and how he sees alot of people ‘misrepresenting a situation because they're embarrassed’ or have no other words and need some justification to present to their circles. By describing a person in this way, in most cases, they skilfully divert any attention from their own personal actions from the situation and invalidate the perspective of that 'crazy' person. 

Finally, as a super busy, proactive and awesome guy who has such a diverse range of commitments and hobbies HD shares with us his top tips of utilising your time to enable you to fit everything you want to do in. *Spoiler - PLAN PLAN PLAN!* haha. 

Thank you so much for coming on the show HD, it was so refreshing talking to someone who shares similar views on issues regarding self-development and maturity. Thank you for opening up to us all today, for sharing your personal experiences, wisdom and advice - everything you've shared is pure gold ;) 

Finally, thank you to all you listeners out there for listening to today's episode. Your support for the show truly means so much. As always, do let us know your thoughts on the show by messaging us on insta or tiktok @thisisnotthedariashow or by emailing us, [email protected] :)) 

Looking forward to seeing you next time :) 

Stay Safe & Stay Swag, 

Daria xo