Any social interactions is usually an ambush - it's an ambush because what's generally going on is control not communication. We're being given someone else's mind, someone else's world-view, and this is control rather than communication. Conditioned human beings CAN'T communicate (because they aren't free to do so) - all we can do when we have been conditioned is transmit this conditioning, this programming, on to others (if we can get away with it)...