In this episode, we challenge the idea that disability is the biggest obstacle—and instead unpack how society often creates the real barriers. We also chat about how society views any relationship that doesn’t fit the norm—making this conversation relatable far beyond disability. We share what it’s like navigating everyday situations as an interabled couple, from barriers and disrespect to moments where people speak to a partner instead of the disabled person. These experiences open up a bigger conversation about awareness, boundaries, and how we choose to respond.

We also talk about the role of a partner—when to advocate, how to support, and why setting clear boundaries together matters. Ashley brings insight from her work in developmental services, highlighting how society can devalue people who are seen as “different,” and what it actually looks like to support others in a way that respects their dignity and autonomy.

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Disclaimer:

These are just our opinions, experience and advice. There is no intention to offend or upset anyone. We respect your opinion and kindly ask you to respect ours. We also understand that they may not reflect the views or values of any organization or community, and that’s okay — everyone’s experiences are different. Thanks for listening with an open mind!

Production:

Special shoutout to our great friend, Sean Towgood, for being our producer for our show - We appreciate you!