Ever experienced a horrible soda nozzle? They have the potential to ruin your day, right? You're always left with a choice...to take your soda stained clothes to another machine or to completely cover the offending nozzle, fill your cup, and move on with your day.

Life is FULL of paradoxes like that - getting closer to the offending nozzle actually HELPS you avoid catastrophe - and the sooner and more completely we recognize the power of paradoxes to show us the way to go, the better off we'll be!