What can we do when that voice in the head just won't let us enjoy or shut the F*ck up? When the mind cockblocks our pleasure even when all could be delight? Hypnosis and self-hypnosis are powerful tools you can use to reset your sexual expectations and enjoyment. Cultivate self-acceptance AND soft cock sensuality by changing negative self-talk to powerfully positive suggestions. Erica Leroye talks with Dr. Amy Marsh, sexologist and founder of the Intimate Hypnosis Training Center.

After the engaging conversation between these two embodiment sexologists, Dr.Amy has provided a full presentation and a guided hypnosis you can use at home. If you would like the pdf of the hypnosis script to use with yourself or a partner it is available on her Cockversation page at www.softcockweek.com

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Amy’s Books:

Entrancing: Hypnotizing Your Way to More Pleasure, Romance, and Sex!

Sexological Hypnosis: Overview, History, & Techniques

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Takeaways

Self-love and acceptance are crucial for sexual enjoyment.

Hypnosis can help bypass negative self-talk.

Fluctuations in erections are normal and should be embraced.

Positive self-talk can enhance sexual confidence.

The nervous system plays a key role in arousal.

Techniques like erotic hypnosis can enhance pleasure.

Self-hypnosis is a valuable tool for body acceptance.

Communication with partners about desires is essential.

Pleasure can be experienced in many forms, not just penetration.

Creating a safe space for intimacy is vital.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Sofcock Appreciation Week

04:19 Dr. Amy's Journey and Expertise

07:25 Understanding Hypnosis in Sexuality

10:54 The Science Behind Hypnosis

12:52 The Role of Self-Suggestion

16:33 Addressing Negative Self-Talk

21:07 Practical Tools for In-the-Moment Challenges

25:35 Using Self-Affirmations Effectively

29:40 Understanding Sexual Response and Neural Pathways

34:16 Exploring the Impact of Cultural Norms on Male Sexuality

36:42 Hypnosis Techniques for Sexual Empowerment

42:18 The Importance of Self-Hypnosis and Partner Support

45:50 The Fluidity of Sexual Experience

48:51 The Power of Words and Positive Reinforcement

54:39 Dr. Amy's Presentation and Demo

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Erica Leroye and Zach Budd, LMSW, consent educator and OG SCWeek participant explore sexuality, consent, and the impact of toxic masculinity, toxic femininity, and “genderless toxicity” on mental and physical health.This conversation touches on race and culture, power and powerlessness, and the impacts of societal expectations on men's health. By naming that which is often unsaid they move the conversation about “softness” from shame and isolation to sexual empowerment by:

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Takeaways

The conversation encourages open discussions about sexual themes.

Consent education is crucial in addressing sexual trauma.

Toxic masculinity can lead to harmful perceptions of manhood.

Toxic femininity affects boys' development in educational settings.

Education systems often fail to support boys' natural development.

Hypersexualization of black men creates unrealistic expectations.

Representation in media is essential for diverse sexual narratives.

Self-talk significantly impacts mental health and relationships.

Toxicity in relationships can lead to physical health issues.

Creating safe spaces for dialogue is vital for healing. Toxicity in one's mind can lead to performance anxiety.

Healthy attachment involves being seen, heard, and accepted.

Body acceptance is a journey that evolves over time.

Vulnerability can enhance intimacy in sexual relationships.

Communication about sexual health is crucial for connection.

Exploring pleasure beyond penetration can be fulfilling.

Prostate health is vital, especially for black men.

Curiosity can counteract anxiety in sexual situations.

Men can experience pleasure in various ways beyond traditional norms.

It's important to challenge toxic masculinity in discussions about health.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week

02:39 Zach Budd's Background and Connection to Soft Cock Week

04:39 Understanding Consent and Sexuality Education

06:02 Toxic Masculinity and Its Impact on Men

12:20 Exploring Toxic Femininity and Gendered Toxicity

19:00 The Effects of Toxicity on Mental and Physical Health

26:29 The Role of Education in Shaping Masculinity

33:44 Hypersexualization and Racial Stereotypes

37:08 The Importance of Representation in Sexuality

40:40 The Impact of Anxiety and Jealousy on Sexual Health

43:00 Navigating Self-Care and Toxicity

48:07 Personal Journeys: Body Acceptance and Health

59:16 The Importance of Vulnerability in Relationships

01:11:34 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Penetration

01:15:29 Prostate Health and Breaking Taboos

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Have you been curious about bringing sex toys into your play but have thoughts like, “It means I’m ‘less than’ if we use a toy”, “I can’t feel my partners pleasure if we use a toy,” “I’m embarrassed that I like sex toys,”  “I tried toys and they didn’t do anything for me,” “If we use toys we’ll become less sensitive, get addicted to it, and it will create problems down the line”? Then this conversation is for you! Join Erica Leroye as she and Carl the Toy Guy, Owner of PTTreasures toy emporium, as they deep dive together into:

With Prostate Cancer rates touching many families, the movement around support and education offers models for us to consider in thinking about erectile health specifically. In this conversation, Erica Leroye invites Billy Hatzichristos, support group facilitator at Man Cave Health to discuss the multifaceted challenges faced by men dealing with prostate cancer, particularly focusing on the impact on relationships, intimacy, and self-advocacy. This conversation gives insights into how Man Cave support groups work and also:

Continuing on the theme of “Why is talking openly and honestly about changes in erectile function still so taboo among men?” Erica Leroye speaks with Percy Hawkes, LMFT, Surrogate Partner, and founder of the Portland Queer Healers Collective, about his years facilitating men’s groups for both hetero and queer men and the wisdom and lessons we can apply as partners, providers and peers. With compassion and curiosity they discuss:

Does it ever feel like you are trying to fit the proverbial square peg into the round hole of sexuality? Are you “going along” with your partner's wishes and desires even when you aren’t feeling arousal? Has sex always been something that just doesn’t light you up? Do you enjoy solo sex but partnered sex isn't a turn-on? Many people are unaware of the the asexuality spectrum and find relief and Aha! with new information on how this may look in relationships. Erica Leroye sits at the feet of Aubri Lancaster, Certified ASSECT Sexuality Educator and founder of Acesexeducation. Aubri has exceptional expertise teaching laypeople and professionals about ACE awareness in ways that are compassionate and transformational. Together they discuss:

What do we mean by asexuality and how does it differ from low libido?

What would be some common signs/signals that might help a person or a partner get to the “aha! This might be me/you/us!”?

What has changed culturally/societally so that this is now more understood as a truth and not something that has to be “overcome”?

What support is out there for people to learn and discover more?

Beyond “Sex”-Expanding what intimacy and connection can look like and feel like for ACE people and partners

They also share some juicy, on the spot erotica imaginations for people who aren't seeing themselves represented in traditional erotica to imagine into.

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Resources Mentioned by Aubri:

Sharonda j Brown- Refusing Compulsory Sexuality

Emily Nagoski

Cody Daigle-Orians @acedadadvice- I am Ace Advice, Ace-Aro Relationship Guide

AI Takeaways:

Asexuality is a valid sexual orientation that challenges traditional norms.

Communication is key in understanding and navigating asexuality in relationships.

Desire discrepancy can lead to misunderstandings in couples.

Solo sexuality is a legitimate expression of sexual identity.

Embodied language in erotica can enhance sexual experiences.

Non-sexual intimacy is equally important in relationships.

Asexuality does not equate to a lack of desire for connection.

Resources are available for those exploring their asexual identity.

It's important to decenter sex in relationships and focus on other forms of intimacy.

Understanding one's own needs and desires is crucial for healthy relationships.

Chapters00:00 Introduction to Asexuality and Aromanticism

07:07 Understanding Asexuality: Definitions and Misconceptions

12:24 Desire Discrepancy in Relationships

18:44 Exploring Solo Sexuality vs. Partnered Sexuality

24:06 The Importance of Non-Sexual Intimacy

30:55 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Sexual Norm

s36:35 Navigating Asexuality and Communication in Relationships

41:45 Resources for Understanding Asexuality

47:50 Conclusion: Embracing Asexuality and Intimacy

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When other factors are ruled out, many men with erectile changes are told “it must be “low-T.” As the market for male hormone replacement therapies grows, how do we better understand the important role testosterone plays in sexual health and well-being over the lifespan? Erica Leroye brings her quest to get a better grasp on the nitty gritty of testosterone and hormone health to Functional Medical Doctor and Men’s Hormone Replacement Specialist Justin Smitherman ND,DC. Join these two as they discuss in easy to understand language:

The importance of self-advocacy when engaging with traditional medical care, key questions to ask when considering testing and replacement therapies, and lifestyle changes that can assist in hormonal well-being.

Soft Cock Appreciation Week know that when maintaining an erection is a challenge, there may be a physiological root that unfortunately is not easily or commonly treated by traditional medicine.  “Imagine pumping up a bicycle tire that has a pinhole leak, no matter how you pump it, that tire just isn’t going to stay firm, so too is the way of Venous leak”. This is the wisdom of Nigel Shaw, the creative innovator and inventor of Xialla, an easy to wear, uniquely designed penis ring for men with Venous leak. Erica Leroye and Nigel delve into the world of Venous Leak and Xialla:

Soft Cock Appreciation Week Know that hands lovingly moving over the body can be a powerful source of erotic pleasure and can be a gift of deep relaxation, but not everyone feels at ease giving and receiving erotic/sensual massage. In this conversation Erica Leroye and Lee Jagger, founder of Rock the Bedroom a teaching program for women to gain confidence and competency bringing erotic massage and tender care to their partners. Together they share the combined wisdom from their years as erotic bodyworkers for men. Together they explore:

Soft Cock Appreciation Week 2024 recognizes that one of the challenges many men face when erectile function shifts is that the familiar “go-tos” of HOW the penis responds to stimuli also changes. This can bring frustration, anxiety and confusion or it can open new doors to discovering a deeper connection to what turns you on. In this lively conversation Jessie Fresh, Erotic Blueprint Coach and Intimacy Educator, shares with Erica Leroye the concept of The Erotic Blueprints, a template of 5 archetypal turn on styles, that are a helpful roadmap to expanding a sense of “who am I and what am I like” with a special focus on connection and arousal styles. Sharing examples and insights from their collective years of working with men and couples they explore: