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What if the soft life isn't about luxury at all? What if it's about survival?
In this episode I explore the soft life as a practice of safety, resistance, and self-preservation for Black women — and why choosing ease is one of the most radical acts we can make.
I'm unpacking why softness feels so dangerous for Black women, exploring the cultural conditioning that taught us to perform strength at all costs, and breaking down what it actually looks like to choose ease in a world that profits from our exhaustion.
Plus, I'm discussing Where the Wildflowers Grow by Terah Shelton Harris—a stunning novel about a woman who stumbles into sanctuary and discovers she's not too broken to heal.
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Culture Lit is a community celebrating black women and black love, and a reminder that black women deserve joy, love success, second chances, and all the beautiful magic the world has to offer.
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Music credit: Cool Jazz Beat by FASOL PROD
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You can find all the books I've reviewed in this podcast in my Bookshop! Visit https://bookshop.org/shop/CultureLitPodcast to get your copy!
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What if the soft life isn't about luxury at all? What if it's about survival?
In this episode I explore the soft life as a practice of safety, resistance, and self-preservation for Black women — and why choosing ease is one of the most radical acts we can make.
I'm unpacking why softness feels so dangerous for Black women, exploring the cultural conditioning that taught us to perform strength at all costs, and breaking down what it actually looks like to choose ease in a world that profits from our exhaustion.
Plus, I'm discussing Where the Wildflowers Grow by Terah Shelton Harris—a stunning novel about a woman who stumbles into sanctuary and discovers she's not too broken to heal.
Books Mentioned
Find this and other recommendations at The CultureLit online BookShop and support independent bookstores at Visit my bookshop!
Resources & Themes
Culture Lit is a community celebrating black women and black love, and a reminder that black women deserve joy, love success, second chances, and all the beautiful magic the world has to offer.
Subscribe to the Culture Lit Podcast Community here: CultureLitPodcast.com
Please follow the podcast via RSS, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocket Casts or wherever you listen to your podcasts!
Let me know what you’re reading, what you’re thinking, and what you’re thinking about what you’re reading.
STAY CONNECTED
Instagram: becomingoctavia
Threads: becomingoctavia
FB: BecomingOctaviaMarie
Music credit: Cool Jazz Beat by FASOL PROD
A Subito Media production
Mentioned in this episode:
If you're enjoying the show, join our community at culturelitpodcast.com.
Visit my bookshop!
You can find all the books I've reviewed in this podcast in my Bookshop! Visit https://bookshop.org/shop/CultureLitPodcast to get your copy!
Visit my bookshop!