When we are looking for solutions, 3 principles will help us. 1. No one is coming. Sounds depressing, but it's actually a positive psychology principle. No one is coming, so stop waiting for them and stand up and act. 2. For everything you are complaining about, someone on the planet has found a solution that you are just not willing to implement. It's not them. It's your willingness to do what it takes. 3. Your first solution isn't going to work. All 3 of these principles prompt you to act in small ways and then iterate and continue to act, which is the one sure way to find your solution