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Somatic Experiencing with Dedeker Winston


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Dedeker Winston is a relationship coach, writer, podcast host, and advocate for polyamory. She is a somatic-practitioner-in-training, and joins us to introduce another therapeutic intervention method for you to consider on your recovery journey. Somatic experiencing is all about bodily sensations. It ties together both our physical and psychological experiences to guide our nervous system through its trauma response and into healing. Not all practitioners come from psychiatry, with some having backgrounds in physical therapy, dance, or being a chiropractor. One of the things that draws people — including myself — to this method of intervention is that you do not have to talk about your trauma. Instead, its main focus is understanding what it means to feel things in our bodies, and to stop the feedback loop of body sensations triggering trauma responses that then trigger body sensations.

Topics/Triggers:

  • What somatic experiencing is based on, as per its creator Peter A. Levine, PhD
  • How Dedeker's experience with PTSD led her to somatic experiencing + why "talk therapy" wasn't the solution for her
  • A breakdown of Dedeker's 1st session of somatic experiencing, including how she finally started to feel good in her body again
  • Why embodiment leads us back into being a whole being connected to nature in a way that psychotherapy does not
  • What capitalism's influence on therapy has done + the reason it keeps us from knowing ourselves
  • Christianity/Catholicism's influence on our western cultural  ideology that being in tune with our flesh is bad
  • A step-by-step of what somatic experiencing is, why it could work for you, personal experiences from our own sessions, and what you can expect from a session of your own
  • Dedeker's personal word of advice for survivors, especially those that are LGBTQ+ and/or in nontraditional relationships
  • Multiamory Podcast
  • Dedeker's book: The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory 
  • Peter A. Levine's website, Ergos Institute of Somatic Education 
  • Peter's books: In An Unspoken Voice + Waking the Tiger
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