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Option 1:
Don't respond.

He did not retaliate when he was insulted, nor threaten revenge when he suffered. He left his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairly. 1 Peter 2:23

A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11

Option 2:
Respond carefully.

Now the Ephraimites asked Gideon, “Why have you treated us like this? Why didn’t you call us when you went to fight Midian?” And they challenged him vigorously. But he answered them… Judges 8:1-2

When the men of Ephraim heard Gideon’s answer, their anger subsided. Judges 8:3

When emotions are high , wisdom is low.

Option 3:
Listen and make a change.

If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise. If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding. Proverbs 15:31-32

Always guard your heart

Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing. Proverbs 12:18

So why do you condemn another believer? Why do you look down on another believer? Remember, we will all stand before the judgment seat of God. Romans 14:10

Yes, each of us will give a personal account to God. So let’s stop condemning each other. Romans 14:12-13

Discussion Questions:

• What is the most ridiculous criticism you’ve received?
• How long has it been since you were last criticized?
• Think of the most critical people you know. What do you think causes all their criticism?
• Pastor Sean said, don’t respond, respond carefully, listen and make a change, and guard your heart. What is your typical response?
• Which do you struggle with more? Being overly critical or overly sensitive to criticism? How can you do better this week?

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