We often see "monuments" raised up in our hearts, lives and actions. Often immovable, they are reminders of pain, failures, lies or maybe offenses that have been put upon us or we have put upon others. But what if Jesus talks about a different way - a way in which new monuments are lifted up - reminders that bring peace and not pain, joy and not sadness - identity and not shame? And what if these are found in the places that we sometimes least expect it - in community with others?