Reflection Questions

1. What resonated with you the most from Song of Solomon 3? Why?
2. How do we see Jesus in this passage? (Aka: What is the connection to the gospel?)

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3. In verses 1-2, Shalummite is searching for her beloved. What are some 'nights' or periods of searching that couples might experience in their marriage? (e.g., feeling disconnected, facing challenges, etc.)? How can couples ensure that they do not drift apart and that they are continually 'seeking' one another?
4. When Shalummite finds her beloved (verses 3-4), she holds him and does not let him go. What does this image convey about the importance of security and commitment in marriage? What are practical ways couples can 'hold onto' their relationship and protect it from outside threats?
5. Verses 4-5 portray a passionate and intimate love. How can couples cultivate and maintain this kind of intimacy in their marriage? How does this passage show us that it is good and holy to have a deep desire for your spouse?
6. Verses 6-10 describe a grand procession. The 'sixty mighty men' surrounding the carriage emphasize protection and security. How important is a sense of security in a marriage? How can spouses provide this for each other? How does the idea of protection translate into modern-day marriages?
7. Read through John 20, Luke 19, Jeremiah 29:13-14, and Rev 19. How does Song of Solomon 3 help to visualize those passages?