God wants you to find your apple tree amongst the trees in forrest. Marriage between 1 man and 1 woman is the foundation of our society. God wants us to patiently search and find his ultimate gift: Our spouse.

Christians are under no obligation to recognize any other form of marriage except the one God designed for the fullfilment of His Kingdom. You are NOT a bigot if you support Biblical marriage, you are good and Godly. This is not a test, its the real thing.