Often times it’s is pushed to us to think that there’s this pathway that a person needs to follow in order to become a certain way or to achieve/be a certain ‘caricature’ when In all actuality, it’s not realistic and it is limiting the individual from becoming their greatest self or preventing them from enjoying the process all together (both its imperfections and perfections).
If given these particular ‘tools’ or ‘rules and regulations’, how would that be applied to fit your situation? How would that help? The process is here for a reason just to reveal to us what works and what doesn’t. It is also here for us to enjoy and genuinely/organically grow. Learn to trust yourself and your secret formula instead of feeling as though you need to trust someone else’s just to get somewhere in life or to feel important.