Check out the notes (in PowerPoint) that I made for this episode.

Includes: Past: typically, we judge our partner on all of their past actions

Present: Typically, we have more grace and understanding of our own history in the relationship…how much we have suffered… so we judge ourselves on the Present

Future: Why did we invest in this relationship

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