There are Godly and Ungodly Soul ties, anything that is ungodly must be severed ( I said un-severed , a mistake, in the podcast but I mean severed to cut to cast away to get rid of destroy) There are many types of soul ties. When God created us he wanted the two, man& woman,  to become one flesh that is impossible math in this realm but in the spiritual realm what is impossible becomes very possible. Take your time and think about all of the soul ties that might have been formed, speak to Abba he will help you overcome every plan of the enemy