I have said this before, and I will continue to enforce this: you should know your love language and your partner's and be practicing it daily before you decide to get engaged. Wait, no, you should know it before you even tell them you love them. 

Below are mine, in order:

Speak their language, know how to speak it and watch as your relationships ignite. 

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