Intimacy Anorexia is a real issue that many couples are dealing with. It is the act of withholding spiritual, emotional, and sexual intimacy from your spouse.
The characteristics of an intimacy anorexic include being too busy, blaming their spouse frequently, withholding love, withholding praise, withholding sex, and them feeling more like a roommate than a loved one to the spouse.
If you are experiencing this, you are the spouse of an Intimacy Anorexic and are dealing with real pain and trauma from the lack of love and intimacy. The trauma of being married to an IA is the same as those who experience infidelity and sex addiction. Being subjected to negative memories and thoughts, feeling isolated and depressed, and lack of sex is quite degrading.
Visit https://intimacyanorexia.com/ for more information.
However, you are not alone in your struggle. For over 30 years, Dr. Doug Weiss has been helping thousands of men and women heal and break free from the effects of intimacy anorexia. We have many different resources to help including books, DVDs, support groups, and counselors that can help you.
If you are the spouse of an IA, it’s not your fault and are not responsible for the way they are. But you are responsible to start moving towards healing for yourself.
Also, we have a test you can take to determine if Intimacy Anorexia® is the issue in your marriage. Take the test here:
https://intimacyanorexia.com/ia-test/
Sexless and Married: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/sexless-married-dvd/
Married & Alone support group for female partners of male Intimacy Anorexics:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/MarriedandAlone/
Married & Alone support group for male partners of female Intimacy Anorexics:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/supportgroupSAIA/
For more information on Intimacy Anorexia, go to:
www.intimacyanorexia.com
Doug Weiss, Ph.D., is a nationally known author, speaker and licensed psychologist. He is the executive director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado, and the author of several books including, Partner Betrayal Trauma ™.
You may contact Dr. Weiss via his website, www.drdougweiss.com or on his Facebook https://www.facebook.com/drdougweiss/
by phone at 719-278-3708
or through email at
[email protected].