Mare touches on why it is so crucial in todays world to be the one to start the conversation, not just be a participant in it. To be unpolished and stragetic with your words, create new perspectives while also taking a step back to listen. Making connections and relationships with people in your life who you normally wouldn't approach, putting yourself in uncomfortable situations to grow and expand your communication skills. Each and every one of us are still learning and working on our own lives, how can we be more than an "extra" in somebody elses. What is our impression on others? Why is starting the conversation so important?