In this message, Pastor Ray Hardee explores the concept of discovering one's "why" in life, emphasizing the importance of understanding our purpose through a spiritual lens. He begins by discussing the significance of starting a new year and the questions we ask about our lives, such as "What is our why?" He references quotes from Mark Twain and Friedrich Nietzsche to highlight the importance of having a purpose.

Pastor Ray emphasizes that the two most important days in a person's life are the day they are born and the day they discover their "why." He introduces a third important day: the day one is "reborn" spiritually. He explains the concept of being "born again" through faith in Jesus Christ, referencing biblical teachings and the story of Nicodemus.

The episode delves into the idea that God has a purpose for each individual, which is revealed through spiritual rebirth. Pastor Ray encourages listeners to find their unique "why" and live it out, using their talents and abilities to serve God and others. He shares personal insights and stories to illustrate how one's "why" can be a source of inspiration and motivation.

The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to discover their "why" by following Jesus and engaging with spiritual teachings. Pastor Ray encourages reflection on one's purpose and the impact it can have on the world.