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Steps to Zap the Need to Please
So many of us out there could stand to gain something from learning how to harness our need to please others. While it seems like a quality that could be beneficial for us or make us come across as helpful individuals, it’s also something that, when consistently placed over our own needs, is really detrimental to our wellbeing and could even stifle the growth of those around us in the long haul.
In today’s episode, I share a few tips for how I manage this, as well as advice for setting clear and concise boundaries with not only the people in my life but myself too. I also share a couple of the experiences my clients have dealt with in relation to this topic, how we can take control of our own situation, and why I believe our spiritual selves should be listened to when it comes to finding our own truth.
To learn more, tune in to Episode 6 of Let’s Get Truth!
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- Where the need to please comes from & Why it can be so difficult to navigate (0:53)
- How we can hold ourselves accountable for our own forms of ‘people-pleasing’ and approach the situation with curiosity and truth (1:53)
- What the cycle of placating others reveals who our genuine friends are (2:46)
- Why I believe in ‘stepping into our own authority’ & Embracing our spiritual selves (3:53)
- How our constant need to help others can stifle their growth and block them from going through their own process (4:52)
- What I’ve seen in parents who feel the need to constantly appease their children & Why it is counterintuitive to their own self-sufficiency (6:08)
- Ways we can start to overcome feelings of needing to please & Explain to others that we may be feeling used (7:06)
- How we can take control of the power others have over us & Nurture ourselves when it comes to setting boundaries (9:51)
- The difference between being nice and being kind (12:52)
Let’s Connect!
- Website: https://claudetteanderson.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheClaudetteAnderson/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theclaudetteanderson/
See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
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So many of us out there could stand to gain something from learning how to harness our need to please others. While it seems like a quality that could be beneficial for us or make us come across as helpful individuals, it’s also something that, when consistently placed over our own needs, is really detrimental to our wellbeing and could even stifle the growth of those around us in the long haul.
In today’s episode, I share a few tips for how I manage this, as well as advice for setting clear and concise boundaries with not only the people in my life but myself too. I also share a couple of the experiences my clients have dealt with in relation to this topic, how we can take control of our own situation, and why I believe our spiritual selves should be listened to when it comes to finding our own truth.
To learn more, tune in to Episode 6 of Let’s Get Truth!
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- Where the need to please comes from & Why it can be so difficult to navigate (0:53)
- How we can hold ourselves accountable for our own forms of ‘people-pleasing’ and approach the situation with curiosity and truth (1:53)
- What the cycle of placating others reveals who our genuine friends are (2:46)
- Why I believe in ‘stepping into our own authority’ & Embracing our spiritual selves (3:53)
- How our constant need to help others can stifle their growth and block them from going through their own process (4:52)
- What I’ve seen in parents who feel the need to constantly appease their children & Why it is counterintuitive to their own self-sufficiency (6:08)
- Ways we can start to overcome feelings of needing to please & Explain to others that we may be feeling used (7:06)
- How we can take control of the power others have over us & Nurture ourselves when it comes to setting boundaries (9:51)
- The difference between being nice and being kind (12:52)
Let’s Connect!
- Website: https://claudetteanderson.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheClaudetteAnderson/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theclaudetteanderson/
See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.