Still Here

If you’re about to start your study abroad journey, this episode is for you.

The first half is about everything you can actually prepare for: packing, documents, logistics, what to bring, what to sort out before leaving, and the little things that can make your first weeks easier.

But the second half is about the things that are much harder to put on a checklist. The emotional side of studying abroad, the ways living somewhere new can change you, navigating independence, leaving versions of yourself behind, and adjusting to a life that might look very different from what you imagined.

This isn’t an episode about how to apply, or how to get accepted. It’s for those who are already stepping into that chapter and want to feel a little more prepared.

Share with those who might be concerned as well !

In this episode, I reflect on the complicated line between being privileged and actually working incredibly hard for the things we have. Sometimes, what looks like luck or privilege from the outside is the result of sacrifices, struggles, and years of effort that nobody else got to see. At the same time, acknowledging our hard work doesn’t mean pretending that privilege doesn’t exist. I also explore the way we attach ideas of hard work and “earning your place” to masculinity, especially when it comes to relationships. Why do we sometimes respect someone more because they had to struggle for what they have? And why can privilege make us question someone’s ambition, character, or worth?

Reflections on privilege, effort, relationships, and the complicated question of who gets credit for the life they have.

People love talking about mental health until medication becomes part of the conversation. Suddenly, antidepressants and any psychiatric medication are treated as something scary, shameful, or life-changing in the worst way possible. A recap about the last couple of months led me to talk about the stigma around mental medication, the myths people still believe, the fear of “losing yourself” under a treatment. It is simply an honest conversation about survival, healing, and why asking for professional help should not be treated like something weak.

We are taught that success comes from persistence, pushing through discomfort, overcoming barriers, and refusing to quit when things get hard. That mindset builds careers, skills and ambitions. But what happens when we apply the same logic to friendships & relationships?

Home teaches us how to survive, the outside world teaches us how to be us. This episode unpacks why we often become different versions of ourselves depending on where we are. It explores how family dynamics, emotional safety and unspoken rules shape the way we show up at home versus in friendships and relationships, and why being quieter or more reserved in certain spaces doesn’t mean we feel less.

People think the hardest part about moving abroad is adapting to a new country, but sometimes, the hardest part is realizing that not everyone will try to keep you close once you’re far away. The episode is about exploring the drifting friendships, the fading effort, the unexpected loneliness, and the surprising people who show up and still stick by your side even from miles away. It is also a gentle reminder that distance doesn’t always break relationships, sometimes it just reveals their real shape.

The fear of uncertainty drives us to overwork, to over-plan, to burn out trying to keep everything from falling apart, while the comfort of control keeps us stuck in safe choices and quiet satisfaction. Losing control or staying too in control, that’s what the episode unpacks.

Chasing a big dream is more than about hard work, it’s about carrying a vision that no one else can fully see or feel except yourself. In this episode, I talk about the loneliness that comes with fighting for something huge, when people around you don’t really understand the weight you’re holding, and the silence that makes you wonder if you’re the only one who believes. If you’ve ever felt unseen during the process, this one’s for you.

Much love.

A year in therapy leaves you with more than answers, it leaves you with a different way of seeing yourself. In this episode, I share messy beautiful truths on my journey with therapy during this year. Enjoy listening !

This episode is a soft space for the contradictions we carry. It’s about the in-betweens, the moments when we feel joy and sorrow, gratitude and longing, love and distance, healing and breaking all at once. It’s about the pressure to “choose one”, and what it means to give yourself permission to be layered, to be complex, to be human…