What’s feeding your insecurity?

If you’ve done the journaling, the praying, the self-work, the personal development — and you still feel insecure — this episode might explain why.

In Episode 31, we go beyond surface-level confidence work and talk about the real issue most people never address: the people, patterns, and environments that are actively feeding insecurity.

WORKING ON YOUR INSECURITIES IS ONE THING.SLAYING WHAT FEEDS THEM IS A WHOLE DIFFERENT LEVEL.— Amanda Sharp

Most people try to fix insecurity by managing symptoms.Very few are willing to remove the source.In this episode, we unpack:

• Why treating insecurity without addressing the root cause keeps you stuck

• How toxic relationships quietly reinforce the belief that you’re not enough

• Why some people benefit from you staying insecure

• The connection between insecurity, people pleasing, and anxious attachment

• How familiar pain and emotional patterns keep repeating from childhood

• Why social insecurity is often a relational issue, not a personality flaw

• How insecurity is fed through criticism, comparison, and emotional invalidation

• Why healing may require letting go of relationships — not fixing them

• How faith, identity, and spiritual grounding change confidence at a core level

• The difference between working on insecurity and eliminating what fuels it

We also talk about how insecurity can be a counterfeit of your gift — and why the very thing you’ve been most criticized for may be what you were created to bring into the world.If you’ve ever asked:

• “Why am I still insecure after all this work?”• “Why do I feel confident away from certain people?”

• “Why does my confidence disappear in specific relationships?”

• “Why do I keep attracting people who criticize or diminish me?

”This conversation will help you see insecurity through a completely different lens.

You may not be broken.

You may just be surrounded by what’s feeding it.

Listen now if you’re ready to stop shrinking, stop managing symptoms, and start removing the source.

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What if your confusion, exhaustion, and doubt aren’t signs of weakness — but symptoms of what you are consuming?

“Every habit, every word, every choice I make is shaped by the books I open, the voices I listen to, and the thoughts I allow.”

In this episode of the Still With Purpose Podcast, we unpack how your daily inputs — music, media, conversations, social feeds, entertainment, and even background noise — are quietly training your thoughts, beliefs, and emotional state.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, discouraged, spiritually disconnected, or mentally exhausted, this conversation will help you identify what’s shaping your inner world and how to take back stewardship of your mind.

In this episode, we talk about:

• How what you watch, listen to, and scroll directly impacts your mood and mental health
• Why confusion is often caused by too many voices competing for your attention
• The spiritual and emotional cost of constant background noise
• How entertainment, music, and social media can reinforce shame, fear, and unworthiness
• Why protecting your mental space is stewardship — not isolation
• The biblical concept of taking your thoughts captive
• How dopamine addiction and constant stimulation are shaping modern anxiety
• Why healing requires quiet, honesty, and intentional boundaries
• How your inputs determine your beliefs, decisions, relationships, and future

Most people don’t realize how subtly they’re being shaped.

Every scroll, every podcast, every song, every show is training something in you.

If you don’t intentionally choose your influences, the world will do it for you.

This episode is an invitation to slow down, get honest, and ask: What am I feeding — and what is it producing in my life.

Listen with an open heart, and take this conversation back to God, not culture.

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What would happen if you stopped being afraid to be seen?Most of us want deep connection, real love, and authentic relationships — yet we remember the moments vulnerability backfired, was misunderstood, or used against us. That fear quietly teaches us to armor up, perform, or stay surface-level.

But here’s the truth:

“Vulnerability is the courage that inspires freedom in yourself & others.”— Amanda Sharp

In this episode, we explore what vulnerability actually is — and what it is not. This conversation goes far beyond surface-level advice and into the real-life tension between emotional openness, boundaries, trust, faith, and self-protection.

You’ll hear honest reflections on:

• Why vulnerability feels unsafe after emotional wounds
• How to tell the difference between healthy vulnerability and oversharing
• Why emotional connection is deeper than physical attractionHow vulnerability creates real intimacy in dating and marriage
• What happens when vulnerability is used manipulatively
• How fear of being seen blocks connection and spiritual growth
• Why vulnerability exposes character — not just emotion
• How to stay emotionally open without abandoning discernment
• The role of God in healing betrayal, shame, and broken trust

This episode is for anyone who:

• Struggles with fear of rejection or abandonment
• Has been hurt after opening their heart
• Wants deeper emotional intimacy without losing themselves
• Feels torn between guarding their heart and staying open
• Desires relationships rooted in honesty, safety, and faith

Vulnerability is not weakness.

It is courage in action.

And it may be the missing key to the connection you’re craving.

Listen now and discover why being fully known is the doorway to real freedom.

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Today Is Full: I Will Not Pack It With Tomorrow’s Worry.

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Today’s episode of the Still With Purpose Podcast dives deep into one of the most difficult spiritual practices for many believers: trusting God with today and releasing control of tomorrow.

“How much peace have you traded trying to control what God already promised to handle?”

In this conversation, Amanda & Christy explore fear, worry, anxiety, and future forecasting through a biblical lens. We unpack the powerful meaning of daily bread, why God refuses to give answers for tomorrow, and how trying to store up certainty actually creates more stress, suffering, and spiritual disconnection.

This episode speaks directly to anyone who:

• Struggles with anxiety, overthinking, or fear of the future
• Feels exhausted from trying to control outcomesIs stuck in people-pleasing, striving, or perfectionism
• Wants a deeper, more trusting relationship with God
• Is learning how to surrender worry and walk in faith daily

We discuss how worry is often rooted in control, pride, worthiness issues, and lack of trust—not just in God, but in ourselves.

Using real-life stories, scripture, and honest faith experiences, we show how peace is available when we stop living in tomorrow and fully step into today.

Key topics covered in this episode:

• What “daily bread” really means in the Bible
• Why God doesn’t answer tomorrow’s questions
• How fear and love cannot exist in the same space
• The cost of future anxiety on your spiritual and emotional health
• How suffering often comes from worrying about what hasn’t happened
• Why trusting God builds trust in yourself and others

How to stop striving and start living with peace and clarity

This episode is for anyone who wants less chaos, less fear, and more peace, faith, and alignment with God’s will.

Take a deep breath. Today is full. God is already here.

If this episode resonates with you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs encouragement today.

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When You Commit Alternatives Become Irrelevant. – Amanda Sharp

Confusion doesn’t come from a lack of clarity—it comes from a lack of commitment.

In this episode, Amanda and Christy dive deep into why indecision keeps us stuck, drains our confidence, and clouds our purpose.If you find yourself overthinking decisions, seeking validation, people-pleasing, or asking too many opinions before moving forward, this conversation will shift how you see commitment forever.

We talk about how clarity often comes after you decide, why asking everyone else for approval actually creates more confusion, and how learning to make grounded decisions with God brings peace, alignment, and momentum. You’ll hear real stories about choosing faith over fear, saying no to distractions, and trusting the version of yourself that said yes.

This episode also explores how indecision affects leadership, creativity, relationships, and even the way others trust you. Whether you’re wrestling with a big life decision, struggling to stay focused on your calling, or learning how to stop people-pleasing, this conversation will help you choose, commit, and move forward with confidence.

If you’re tired of being stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure—this episode is for you.

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This week on Still With Purpose, we chose not to release a normal episode.Instead, we paused to honor the life of Mary Virginia Stacey, a beautiful soul who passed away suddenly and unexpectedly due to complications from influenza at just 15 years old.

Mary was Christy’s daughter’s lifelong best friend. They grew up together, dreamed of going to college together, becoming roommates, raising pets, and sharing a long life of friendship side by side. She was not just a friend, but family. To Christy, her husband, and their younger daughter, Mary felt like one of their own, another sister in their home.

Mary leaves behind two loving parents and three siblings, including her twin brother, and many extended family members, all of whom are grieving a loss no family should ever have to endure.

In this tribute, Christy shares from the heart about the pain of losing someone so young, the ripple effect grief has on children, families, and entire communities, and why it is okay to stop and sit with that pain instead of pushing forward like nothing has changed.

This tribute includes a photo video shared through the lens of a best friend’s mom, capturing years of deep friendship, love, laughter, and memories. You will see Christy’s children throughout the photos along with many others - a reflection of how closely their lives were woven together, and you will feel the love that radiated from Mary and her smile that truly lit up every room.

Together, we acknowledge that while we believe God has a plan and purpose, tragedy does not always come with answers. This episode is not about fixing grief or rushing healing. It is about honoring a life, allowing space for loss, and recognizing how precious and fragile life truly is.

We invite you to spend a few quiet moments with us. You can watch the video tribute or simply listen and reflect on loved ones you have lost, where you are in your own grieving process, and the gratitude that comes from having loved deeply.

If you are grieving, you are not alone.

If your heart is heavy, this space is for you.

We will return next week.

Until then, hug your loved ones tight.

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Growth And Discipline Begins Where Comfort Ends.– Amanda Sharp

What if the biggest battle of your life isn’t the enemy, other people, or your circumstances… but the undisciplined version of you that you allow?

In this raw and eye-opening conversation, Amanda and Christy take you deep into the internal fight every person faces: the tension between your disciplined self who wants transformation and your undisciplined self who craves comfort, avoidance, and the familiar.

This episode exposes the patterns that quietly sabotage your calling — the excuses, the blame, the hiding, the self-righteousness, the shame, the emotional addictions, and the beliefs that keep you small.

Inside this episode you’ll hear:

• Why comfort feels safe but silently destroys your growth
• How the undisciplined self keeps you stuck in cycles of self-sabotage
• Why discipline is choosing who you want to become, not what feels good
• How shame loses its power the moment it’s brought into the light
• The spiritual truth that transformation starts with surrender
• The addictions no one talks about (validation, people-pleasing, ego, negativity, numbing, avoidance)
• Why some areas of your life get your discipline — and others get your excuses
• How God uses repentance, humility, and accountability to reshape your entire life

Amanda and Christy share personal stories, spiritual breakthroughs, and the painful yet powerful moments when God exposed the parts of themselves that comfort was hiding.

This episode will challenge the way you see discipline, comfort, calling, and the person you are becoming.

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Do It From Love Not For Love– Amanda Sharp

What if the version of “love” you’ve been giving isn’t really love at all—but a disguised form of people-pleasing, self-abandonment, or enabling?

In this deep and candid conversation, we take a hard look at the patterns so many of us fall into: over-giving, over-apologizing, absorbing the emotions of everyone around us, and calling it kindness.

We unpack the difference between doing things for love versus doing things from love—and why one leads to resentment and depletion, while the other leads to real connection, peace, and spiritual alignment.

We explore why people-pleasers are often not praised while silently suffering, how boundaries feel terrifying when your value is tied to being needed, and how easily manipulative dynamics form when you don’t know your worth.

From faith to friendship, singleness to marriage, parenting to past trauma, we get honest about the journey of untangling your identity from the approval of others.

You’ll hear us dive into:

The hidden control issues behind people-pleasing

Why “kindness” that costs you your peace is not love

The trap of performing for belonging

Over-apologizing and shrinking to keep the room comfortableHow resentment grows when love isn’t reciprocated

The void only God can fill

What it means to serve from love, not for it

The spiritual work of putting God first in relationships

The identity crisis when people no longer need you

Why enabling stunts growth (yours and theirs)

Reclaiming your voice, your limits, and your God-given identity

This episode is an invitation to step out of the cycle of earning love and into a healthier, holier, more grounded way of connecting—with God, with others, and with yourself.

If you’ve ever felt exhausted from being the strong one, the helper, or the fixer, this conversation will meet you right where you are.

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In Search of Worth, We Often Turn to Those Whose Perspective Is as Limited as Our Own. -Amanda Sharp

In Episode 23, Amanda and Christy dive deep into the search for validation, self-worth, confidence, identity, and the internal battles that shape who we become.

This conversation confronts the patterns we build from childhood, the roles we learn to play to feel seen, and the ways external approval can derail our purpose, relationships, boundaries, and faith.

Together, they explore how false validation shows up through appearance, relationships, performance, comparison, and people-pleasing.

They break down the difference between validation and true support, why many stay in toxic environments, and how insecurity, jealousy, and fear can distort our choices.

This episode brings honest stories about marriage, career sabotage, boundaries, purpose, God’s guidance, community, healing, and rebuilding identity after losing yourself.

If you’re looking for a conversation around personal growth, emotional maturity, faith, purpose, transformation, self-leadership, and learning to rely on God rather than external approval, this episode will challenge and encourage you. Learn how to stop abandoning yourself, how to identify unhealthy validation cycles, and how to anchor your worth in who God created you to be.

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We can't thrive alone: Personal growth requires supportive people who guide and hold us accountable with compassion. - Amanda Sharp

In Episode 22, Amanda and Christy dive deep into one of the most overlooked truths in personal growth: you were never meant to chase your dreams alone.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, burnt out, or convinced your goals are “too big,” this conversation will wake something up inside you.

The episode explores:

• Why certain areas of your life feel stagnant when you try to do everything yourself
• How God uses community, accountability, and supportive people to pull you into your purpose
• The fear, ego, and self-doubt that show up when you’re called to something bigger
• How Amanda built life-changing dreams through prayer partners, community, and faith
• Why your gifts don’t disappear when circumstances change — they evolveHow to recover after loss, heal disappointment, and dream again
• What compassionate accountability looks like (versus shame-based pressure)
• How surrounding yourself with big-thinkers elevates your belief and your results

With her community, from acquiring a multimillion-dollar property with no money of her own, to purpose driven events, to rising from the ashes after devastating loss — Amanda shares raw, real stories of faith, perseverance, and how God prepares your character before He delivers the calling.

Who This Episode Is For:

Anyone feeling stuck, burnt out, or unsure what’s next

Dreamers who want to believe again

People who love God but wrestle with fear, timing, or trustHigh-achievers who secretly feel alone

Anyone craving deeper community, accountability, and purpose

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