Enchiridion 14 looks at irrational choices and commitments we make. We have to understand that those in our lives will die and we must accept this. We need to understand what is in our control and what is not.

We cannot wish for things to happen as we want. We must be realistic about what happens in life. Focus on what you control and you will succeed. It is personal growth. Think of your own growth as tending a garden.

It is universally accepted that plants need sunlight, and water to properly flourish and grow. Those principles help to shape the development of gardens and wildlife all around the world. When it comes to personal growth, there are similar principles that we must abide by to avoid stagnation.