Enchiridion 30 examines how we develop and maintain our integrity when dealing with others. Our path to improvement in Stoicism can be measured how we interact with others.

We must understand what is in our control and what is not. Our faculty of choice and moral purpose must be maintained. It may mean setting certain boundaries in any relationship.

One concern you might have with setting boundaries with others is that you don’t want to make unfair ones that will drive people away. Sometimes it’s necessary to have tough boundaries, but you need to make sure they’re fair so that you’re not actually imposing on other people as well.

There are some good ways for you to make sure your boundaries are fair while still achieving the goal you want to