Call it love struck, smitten, or whether it be love at first sight, there are stages that any new relationship goes through that have you believeing that it could last forever.  But when the newness fades and you begin to see what you have manifested, are you happy with your choice or do you want to throw in the old model for a newer shinier one?  These are the things that we must consider when dating and considering marriage.  We must also periodically reevaluate our own positions in our current relationships, if we want them to last...