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Stop Arguing for the Bottom | The mindset that’s DESTROYING modern men.
A guy came at me online and said,
“You don’t need a six-pack to be a good dad.”
“You shouldn’t sacrifice your family for fitness.”
👊 And that’s exactly the mindset that’s DESTROYING modern men.
In this video, I break down why being “good enough” is the lie keeping men soft, weak, overweight, and mentally checked out.
📉 You can be a good dad and be out of shape.
But don’t lie to yourself — you’re not leading.
You’re not setting the standard.
And your family can feel it — even if they love you.
🧠 This isn’t about vanity. It’s about psychology, discipline, and showing up like a f***ing king — not a coward melting into the couch.
Inside this video, I cover:
Why arguing against fitness is arguing against your potential
The truth about sacrifice, selfishness, and legacy
What your kids REALLY learn from your habits
Why your wife wants the confident, fit, present version of you
And the cold hard stats on divorce and generational impact ⚠️
I don’t care if this ruffles feathers.
I’ve lived it. I was the overweight, depressed, exhausted dad.
And I changed.
Now I help other men do the same — through fire, discipline, and truth.
📩 If you’re ready to stop playing small and start LEADING your family like the man God called you to be...
Send me a message.
Let’s rewrite the story and dominate.
🧱 Build the body.
🧠 Master the mind.
👑 Lead the family.
👇 Drop “STANDARD” in the comments if you’re DONE being average.
#DadBodIsDead #SetTheStandard #DominateDaily
#DadCoach #MasculineLeadership #BeardologyWarpath
#FitDads #PresentFathers #GenerationalLegacy
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By Paul M. BerensA guy came at me online and said,
“You don’t need a six-pack to be a good dad.”
“You shouldn’t sacrifice your family for fitness.”
👊 And that’s exactly the mindset that’s DESTROYING modern men.
In this video, I break down why being “good enough” is the lie keeping men soft, weak, overweight, and mentally checked out.
📉 You can be a good dad and be out of shape.
But don’t lie to yourself — you’re not leading.
You’re not setting the standard.
And your family can feel it — even if they love you.
🧠 This isn’t about vanity. It’s about psychology, discipline, and showing up like a f***ing king — not a coward melting into the couch.
Inside this video, I cover:
Why arguing against fitness is arguing against your potential
The truth about sacrifice, selfishness, and legacy
What your kids REALLY learn from your habits
Why your wife wants the confident, fit, present version of you
And the cold hard stats on divorce and generational impact ⚠️
I don’t care if this ruffles feathers.
I’ve lived it. I was the overweight, depressed, exhausted dad.
And I changed.
Now I help other men do the same — through fire, discipline, and truth.
📩 If you’re ready to stop playing small and start LEADING your family like the man God called you to be...
Send me a message.
Let’s rewrite the story and dominate.
🧱 Build the body.
🧠 Master the mind.
👑 Lead the family.
👇 Drop “STANDARD” in the comments if you’re DONE being average.
#DadBodIsDead #SetTheStandard #DominateDaily
#DadCoach #MasculineLeadership #BeardologyWarpath
#FitDads #PresentFathers #GenerationalLegacy