The Better Self Project

Stop Doing The "Right" Things


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In this episode, we discuss how doing the seemingly "right" things in regards to weight loss may be leading many of us astray. Should you do tons of steady state cardio to lose body fat? Should you endure really rigid diets in order to attain the body you've always been after? Maybe not. We talk about some misconceptions as well as give advice on what can be more effective and sustainable long-term.

Sometimes, we assume doing the right things means torturing ourselves. We think we need to do hours of cardio each day, and succumb to really rigid and restrictive diets. But what if none of the traditional things we've been told our whole lives works?

It's necessary to be kind to ourselves on our health journeys. We must find what works for us. We shouldn't be trying to starve ourselves thin. We shouldn't be attempting to burn an extra 1,000 calories a day on the treadmill. 

We aim to give some practical tools and ideas in this episode, the practices that actually work.

Time Stamps:

0:35 - Doing the "right" things.

1:01 - The social media trap.

2:30 - We often get discouraged when we think we're doing the right things.

4:00 - Restrictive diets.

4:44 - When I struggled (Kyle).

5:40 - Beating ourselves up doesn't help.

7:47 - More cardio may not be the answer.

9:30 - A story about skipping meals.

10:17 - The rebound effect.

10:30 - Be flexible - consistency over perfection.

13:06 - Harmful diets.

13:52 - Intuitive eating.

16:33 - We justify shaming ourselves.

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- Guidance & Accountability

- Food Knowledge & Awareness

- Food Tracking Strategies

- Strategies For Eating

- Recipes: Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner, & Snacks

- Fitness Plans & Workout Routines

- Resources & Helpful Links

- Support

- Mindset Training & Healthy Habit Training

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More about the hosts of The Better Self Project:

Pamela has been serving people her entire life. She brings joy, comfort, and support to everyone she comes into contact with. Along with doing hair for the last decade plus, she has also developed a love for nutrition and fitness. She is certified in nutrition through the ISSA. She looks forward to continuing to help guide her clients, help them stay accountable, and move them towards their goals while also changing the narrative surrounding food and health. She wants to change the mindsets of the ones she works with.

Kyle has been a certified personal trainer for eight years now.  He has worked in a corporate fitness setting as well as commercial gym, and is now training clients in his own personal training studio space. He also offers online training and coaching.  He is certified through the ISSA. Kyle is also a certified life coach. He is devoted to helping people transform their bodies and minds.

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