Secret Thoughts of CEOS Ep. 143

Stop Leading on Autopilot: Mastering Conscious Communication.

 With Chuck Wisner

In this episode, Chris Yonker dives into the family business world and effective communication strategies, with this week’s guest, Chuck Wisner.  Chuck is a seasoned advisor and coach in communication and leadership. Together, they discuss Chuck’s book The Art of Conscious Conversations. The discussion explores themes such as the importance of examining hidden thoughts and stories that influence our communication patterns, the process of improving listening and communication skills, and strategies for facilitating effective conversations in high-stakes environments. Chuck shares insights on the value of awareness, vulnerability, and intention in transforming how we talk, listen, and interact, both in family settings and professional teams.

·       01:31 The Importance of Conscious Conversations

·       04:27 Understanding Conversational Patterns

·       09:44 The Power of Stories in Communication

·       14:29 Navigating Communication Challenges

·       17:45 Improving Listening and Understanding

·       20:36 The Practice of Managing Triggers

·       23:27 Building Better Conversations

·       25:19 The Power of Open-Handed Communication

·       28:02 Navigating Hostility in Teams and Families

·       28:58 Facilitation Techniques for Effective Dialogue

·       30:16 The Importance of Listening and Perspective Sharing

·       33:05 Leadership and the Power of Influence

·       41:09 Self-Awareness and Changing Behavioral

Quotes

·        ” I think we never were taught the ABCs of conversations, it's like, your notion about the fish and water. I use a similar quote all the time. We're like humans in conversation, not aware of the water we're swimming in, you know, we're just in it, because it's so habitual [07:58]

·        ” It’s this ego thing of holding onto your position tightly, having the answer. Rather than saying, can I learn something, Can I be a little humble? [26:11]

·       “My basic theory is the bigger the gap between what I'm seeing out loud and what I'm thinking, the more stress we live in.’ [39:33]

 Websites:

·       fambizforum.com.

·       www.chrisyonker.com

·       The Art of Conscious Conversations by Chuck Wisner

·       Chuckwisner.com

·       Facebook: Chuck Wisner

·       LinkedIn: Chuck Wisner