What makes the greatest teams legendary is not that that always win; EVERYBODY loses!!!! What makes them legendary is that they always get up off the turf. They find a way to win more than they lose. They rise to the occasion when the pressure is the greatest. In marriage we are going to lose some days. But, as we get our hands in the dirt and do the ugly things, the no fun things, the mundane things, we will find that we will win in marriage more than we lose.