Reclaiming support for Black women isn’t just about breaking free from society’s expectations—it’s about creating space for what you truly need in your life, relationships, and daily experiences. In this episode of Shades of Strong, we’re diving into the top two Support Languages™ that Black women are craving right now: Room to Breathe and Mindful Care.

These results from our Support Languages™ quiz are more than just numbers—they’re reflections of the weight we’ve been carrying for far too long. They’re saying, “We deserve space. We deserve care. We deserve to feel human again.”

For generations, Black women have been the backbone of everything—families, communities, movements. But holding everyone else up often comes at the cost of our own well-being. This episode is an invitation to unlearn the lie that says, “You have to carry it all alone,” and to start reclaiming the support you’ve always deserved.

Shirl is the creator of Support Languages™ and host of Shades of Strong® — a movement shifting the narrative from Strong Black Woman to Supported Black Woman™ through language, rest, and real support.