There was a moment — probably somewhere between 6th and 9th grade — when you gathered every ounce of courage you had, made yourself vulnerable, and got absolutely demolished for it.

You didn't call it a nervous system imprint. You just called it “never doing that again.”

And here's the thing: you kept that promise.

In this episode, we trace the direct line between that formative moment of humiliation and the patterns running your love life right now — the walls, the avoidance, the chase, the armor. We talk about why your body is still protecting a version of you that doesn't need that protection anymore, and why the "butterflies" you've been chasing might be the exact thing keeping you stuck.

This is the episode that connects everything from the last two weeks — and it might be the most important piece of the puzzle yet.

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Reflect: " Think back to the first time you were truly vulnerable with someone you had feelings for — and it cost you something. What did you decide in the aftermath? And is that decision still making choices for you today?”

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