Brian openly admits he’s a big “should-er” - my brother should’ve bought that, my kids should’ve done this, Harley should’ve done that. While these thoughts often come from love or wanting the best, they can subtly undermine relationships and create shame. We explore how “should-ing” on yourself or others is really a form of arguing with reality - and how that never actually helps anyone move forward. 

This is a great episode to listen to going into family holiday's if you want less tension and more peace in your relationships.