You have to learn to leave the past behind you and look toward the future. Stop giving your partner a reason to judge you based on your past. If it’s not going to affect his or her future then why bring it up. Some things you may have to explain to your partner because maybe it will impact them being with you. For example, letting a person know you don’t want to have kids. That’s something your partner need to know. They don’t have to know things that want affect them. This is your girl Shonti Keepin it 💯