We try so hard sometimes to be something that you believe someone else wants you to be. We say yes to family dinners when you don't really want to go. We agree to do things we don't really want to do. We show up as a version of ourselves that is inauthentic and as a result, it creates a lot of unhappiness and negative emotions for us. The problem with all of thihs is that no matter how hard you try to be who you thhink they want you to be "they" still can't see it. They can and will only see what they want to see, who they perceive you to be. So if they can't see who you're trying to be anyway, why no be the version of you that you want to be?

Episode 93: Stop Trying to be Who You Think They Want You to be

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We are so quick to filter everything though the "ME" category and by so doing we create a lot of angst, anxiety, stress, and fear in our lives. We also miss out on being able to see or understand what might really be going on. In this episode, I share ways to recognize that we're diving into the "ME" category and how to gently shift to the "NOT ABOUT ME" category. This is such a relevant topic that will be a huge benefit in your life and in your relationships. When you're ready, tune in with LDS Life Coach, Hannah Coles.

Episode 131: Not About Me

We live in an age where information, opinions, and preferences are thrown at us all day long. Your phone sends alerts, your watch vibrates with messages, and social media is concentrated with thoughts, images, quotes, offers, videos, and messages - and while they might be good and you might love them - how much of them are you actually retaining? How can we show up confident and able to trust in ourselves if we can't remember the pivotal tools in the moment we need them? In this episode, I share a TWO FOLD practice that will help you develop your capacity to remember! Tune in with LDS Life Coach Hannah Coles

Episode 130: How to Remember

Sometimes we experience a feeling of being tired that just won't go away. No amount of rest, vacationing, or typical self-care tactics can cure because it's more complicated to address. In this episode, I walk you through reasons to where this kind of "tired" comes from and offer you real solutions to alleviating that struggle. Tune in with LDS Life Coach Hannah Coles.

Episode 129: Just Tired

We all want more of the "right" people in our lives. We want good friends and co-workers who uplift rather than deplete and drain us. In this episode, I address the HOW of learning to attract emotionally healthy and available people in your life. We will explore why we may unintentionally attract emotionally unhealthy individuals and how to shift our focus to notice and gravitate towards those who align with our values. Join me, Hannah Coles, LDS Life Coach as I share the importance of self-awareness, compassion, and setting boundaries in fostering meaningful connections. 

Episode 128: How to Attract the Right People in Your Life

Are you tired of attracting the wrong people in your life, no matter how much you try to change your circumstances? You're not alone. In this episode, I help you dive deeper into the reasons behind this and offer insights on how to break the cycle. From recognizing awareness to knowing your own worth to setting healthy boundaries, I help you uncover the steps to stop attracting the wrong people and to start paving the path toward welcoming healthier connections. Join me, Certified Life Coach, Hannah Coles as I help you navigate this complex topic and empower you to create the fulfilling connections you deserve. 

Episode 93: Stop Trying to be Who You Think They Want You to be

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