Nobody goes through life without struggling.  It’s just not possible!  So why do some parents freak out when their teen goes through hard times?

Struggling teens often present a crisis to their parents.  Mom and dad might back away from their child in those moments… because they feel like failures.  Or they jump in and protect their teen from any hardship… longing to give them an easy and good life.

My challenge to moms and dads with struggling teens is this:  As your kids apply the principles you’ve taught them, they’ll always run into trouble in the world.  But that doesn’t mean you’ve done your job poorly!  In fact… it’s your chance to step up and love your teen at the time they need you most.

Struggle is normal.  It’s healthy.  And you need to expect it in your teen!

 

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