Why do moms keep saying yes… even when we are exhausted?

This week, one tiny yes spiraled into a full-on heat press marathon...numbers, logos, sponsor patches, everything. My husband was frustrated. I was overwhelmed. And yet… the end result surprised me.

One grateful coach.

In this episode, I share the chaotic, funny, frustrating, beautiful story that helped me finally understand:

If you have been saying yes to everything and wondering why you are exhausted, this episode is going to hit home.

This episode starts with a Target run that turned into one of the most emotional moments of my entire motherhood journey.

My kids, without being asked, reminded, or nudged, asked if they could go buy Thanksgiving gifts for each other… with their own money.

My middle son even pulled out his birthday gift card and said he’d split it evenly so everyone could pick something for each other.

And in that moment, standing in the middle of Target, it hit me:

In today’s episode of Struggle & Strength: Moms Balancing It All with Nikki, I share:

If you’ve ever doubted yourself or wondered if all the chaos, driving, teaching, reminding, and loving is even working… this episode is your reminder that it is.

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This week, I returned to my alma mater, Purdue University, for the College of Pharmacy Advisory Council meetings and something incredible happened.

When I shared my story of helping pharmacist moms create side hustles to earn extra income and rediscover their purpose, something shifted.

Several women came up to me afterward and said,

These conversations reminded me of the exact moment I realized I was made for more. I had the title, the career, the paycheck but I didn’t have fulfillment. I felt stuck, unseen, and tired of going through the motions.

That’s when I decided to take everything I knew as a pharmacist and build something of my own something that gave me freedom, purpose, and passion again.

💛 In this episode, I’m sharing:

How I reconnected with Purdue after vowing I’d never go back

The moment I realized I wasn’t the only one craving more

Why so many pharmacist moms are ready to rewrite their story

And how you can use your degree to build a life that lights you up again

If you’re a pharmacist, healthcare worker, or just a mom who’s ready to stop feeling stuck and start creating something that’s yours I’d love to help you map it out.

🎯 Book your free call with me at www.talktonikkiw.com and let’s find your purpose together.

Around this time last year, I did something that changed my life.

I got on a plane, left my family at home, and went to my first-ever live event The It’s Her Turn Summit by Cathy Heller.

It was the first time I had truly put myself first. I didn’t know anyone there. I didn’t know what to expect. But what I found was transformation...the kind that only happens when you take a leap of faith and choose you.

That weekend, I stood in a room full of women chasing purpose and possibility, and Christina Perri performed “A Thousand Years.” The lyrics hit me like a wave because in that moment, I realized… I had waited a thousand years to love myself.

That trip changed everything. My confidence, my business, my health, and my sense of worth. It was the turning point that led me here...to the woman I am today.

💛 Inside this episode, I share:

The fear I felt before leaving my family for the first time

The moment I stopped asking for permission and started choosing myself

How that one decision reshaped my life, my business, and my purpose

And the reminder that every mom needs to hear: you are enough

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to put yourself first this is it.  Subscribe now and send this episode to every mom you know!

When I left Purdue University in 2006, I vowed I’d never go back.

Not because I didn’t love it...my six years there gave me some of the best memories of my life but because the way it ended left me heartbroken. I wanted to forget it all and start fresh. So I did.

But sometimes, God has a way of bringing you right back to the place you thought you’d left behind… not to relive the pain, but to rewrite the story.

In this episode of Struggle & Strength: Moms Balancing It All with Nikki, I share how my journey came full circle:

What once felt like a closed chapter is now a new beginning and proof that God’s timing is always perfect.

If you’ve ever tried to run from a part of your past, this episode is a reminder that sometimes the place you swore you’d never return to becomes the very place you’re meant to rise from.

It’s the question every parent hears at least once a weekend:

And honestly? I never know how to answer.

Between three kids, five soccer games, two tennis matches, diving practice, and coaching toddler soccer it’s a full-time job just keeping track of who’s playing where.

This weekend alone, we had seven games, two practices, and about a hundred snack breaks in between. 😅

In this episode of Struggle & Strength: Moms Balancing It All with Nikki, I’m talking about the beautiful chaos of being a sports parent and the real burnout that comes with it.

💛 Inside, I share:

The endless weekend routine of games, matches, and practices

How our kids are starting to notice the toll it takes on us

When to ask the hard question: “Are we doing too much?”

And why saying no sometimes teaches our kids more than saying yes ever could

Because the truth is, we all want our kids to succeed but not at the cost of their joy (or our sanity).

Have you ever hit a point where you just wanted to quit...on everything?

Last week, I was there.

And then… He answered.

That same afternoon, my daughter walked into my office holding a huge bouquet of roses and tulips...my favorites. It was from one of my clients, completely unexpected, with a note thanking me for everything I’d done to help them. 🌷

The next day? A new discovery call booked.

It was like God was saying:

In this week’s episode of Struggle & Strength, I’m sharing the story of how a week that began with exhaustion turned into one filled with affirmation, gratitude, and divine reminders that we’re on the right path...even when it feels impossible.

💛 Inside, you’ll hear:

The real emotions behind wanting to quit everything

The moment God showed up and reminded me to keep going

How to recognize divine affirmations in your own life

A message of hope for every mom who’s carrying too much

Because sometimes, when you’re ready to quit… that’s when God sends you flowers. 🌸

Being a mom, wife, and entrepreneur sometimes feels like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle—blindfolded. 🔥

And lately? I’ve been there...deep in the exhaustion, wondering, “Is it even worth it?”

In this episode of Struggle & Strength: Moms Balancing It All with Nikki, I’m opening up about what it feels like to be pulled in every direction taking on new clients, investing in programs, driving kids from one activity to the next and still feeling like there’s never enough time.

💛 Inside, I share:

The truth about overwhelm that no one talks about

Why we keep saying yes even when we’re drowning

How to recognize when you’ve hit your limit

And the mindset shift that helps you step off the unicycle and finally breathe again

If you’ve ever looked at your calendar and thought, “I can’t keep doing this,” this episode will remind you...you’re not alone, and you don’t have to carry it all to be enough.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly fighting for your kids at school, on the field, or in the classroom...you’re not imagining it.

This year alone, I’ve had to step in when:

A teacher marked an assignment as missing even though it was fully completed.

A soccer coach skipped the very skills and agility training we signed up for.

My youngest was stuck sitting next to disruptive kids in a class with no control.

And for the first time ever, my kids told me they’d rather be homeschooled.

In this episode of Struggle & Strength, I’m opening up about the exhausting reality of why moms always have to advocate and the powerful analogy that reframes it all:

💡 Advocating for your kids is like being their attorney in the courtroom of life. You’re not fighting for special treatment. You’re making sure their voice is heard, the facts are clear, and they get a fair shot.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why is this always on me?” this episode will remind you that while advocacy is hard, it’s also one of the greatest gifts we can give our kids.

At my kids’ tennis practice this week, I heard something unfold that hit me right in the heart.

One coach complimented a mom’s daughter, calling her a future rock star. Amazing, right? But another mom walked away upset because her daughter didn’t get the same praise. She felt like her child was just as good, maybe even better, and she couldn’t understand why nothing was said about her.

It made me realize just how often we, as moms, fall into the trap of comparison...not just for ourselves, but through our kids.

In this episode of Struggle & Strength, I’m opening up about:

If you’ve ever caught yourself comparing your child to someone else’s or comparing yourself to another mom this episode will remind you that your worth isn’t defined by applause, trophies, or grades. Your journey doesn’t have to look like hers.