We draw near to God by ceasing to be double-minded (James 4:8). Being double-minded is when our secret world does not match our public world, when what we believe and do in one setting is different from what we believe and do in another setting. In our modern culture, this is most readily seen in the areas of pornography and sexuality, which are easily accessed through technology. What God has designed for good within a covenant marriage between a man and a woman has been twisted and distorted into an idol. As a multi-billion-dollar industry, pornography and its various forms rob us of the abundant life God has for us (John 10:10). We overcome double mindedness and sexual sin by not minimizing the issue, by drawing good boundaries, and by finding someone to fight with you.