Why does the same argument keep resurfacing in your marriage? Most conflict isn’t about the topic—it’s about the emotion and fear underneath it. Research shows many marital problems are perpetual, meaning they can’t be eliminated, only understood and managed. In this episode, we explore how repetitive arguments, emotional triggers, and communication breakdown form a cycle—and how Scripture (Luke 6:45; James 1:19–20) reveals that lasting change begins in the heart and with emotional regulation. If you’re tired of going in circles, this conversation will help you step off the loop and move toward safety and intimacy.