I've realized that there is a lot of 'undoing' I need to do within myself to have the life that I want to live.  Negative thinking, self doubts, fears, etc.  In realizing this, I see that the advice and converstaions that I have with my kids is the life advice I need to impliment myself.  I find myself parenting myself as I guide my kids on their own paths.  It's a really beautiful realization to see how far I've come and how much I can teach my kids from an early age.  Grateful!