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You crushed the goal.
Everyone’s proud.
So why do you feel empty?
In today’s Daily Power Boost, we expose a hidden truth:
Most people don’t feel misaligned because they’re lazy—
They feel misaligned because they’ve outgrown the version of themselves who set the goal.
When your self-concept evolves but your success metrics don’t…
Every win feels like self-betrayal.
Inside this episode:
* Why “success” often reflects an outdated identity
* The hidden grief of outgrowing old dreams
* How to redefine goals that align with your current self
✦ Reflection Prompts
* Where did my current goals originate—from vision or from survival?
* What am I chasing that I no longer truly want?
* How do I define success now, from this version of me?
✦ Action Steps
* Audit Your Ambition
* Write one big goal down. Ask: Was this set from fear or alignment?
* Reclaim the Metric
* Reword the goal so it reflects an identity-based outcome:
* “Instead of chasing ____, I want to become the kind of person who ____.”
* Practice Identity Alignment
* Look in the mirror and say:
* “I no longer have to stretch to prove.
* I’m building from who I actually am now.”
✦ Bonus Resource
Book a No-cost Success Blockers Call
We’ll pinpoint the old identities and outdated goals still driving your actions—so you can lead from wholeness, not hunger.
✦ On the Next Episode
Tomorrow, we’re peeling back another performance mask with:
“Your Highest Self is Probably Lying to You”
(How the ‘aspirational self’ can become a mask that blocks real evolution)
Because when your growth becomes a persona, not a process—you stop transforming and start performing.
✦ If You Loved Today’s Episode…
Here’s how to move deeper:
* Share this episode with someone who’s carrying too much out of pride or fear.
* Subscribe to Daily Power Boost for daily shifts in how you think, lead, and live.
* Join the R.E.A.L. Mastery™ Hub – The home of identity-based leadership and rhythm-based success. realmasteryhub.com
* Want to be coached live? Beyond the Boost is coming, comment or message me if you want to be considered.
✦ Engage With Me Online
* Instagram: @coachshawnmichael
* TikTok: @coachshawnmichael
* YouTube: @coachshawnmichael
* LinkedIn: @coachinguatemala
✦ References & Influences
* Steve Andreas, Transforming Your Self — on self-concept and the impact of outdated internal identity.
* Gay Hendricks, The Big Leap — on upper limit problems and hitting goals that don’t satisfy.
* Michael Gervais, Finding Mastery Podcast — on internal alignment vs performance metrics.
* Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection — on values-based living rather than perfectionistic goals.
* Seth Godin, The Practice — on letting go of external outcomes in favor of identity-based doing.
You crushed the goal.
Everyone’s proud.
So why do you feel empty?
In today’s Daily Power Boost, we expose a hidden truth:
Most people don’t feel misaligned because they’re lazy—
They feel misaligned because they’ve outgrown the version of themselves who set the goal.
When your self-concept evolves but your success metrics don’t…
Every win feels like self-betrayal.
Inside this episode:
* Why “success” often reflects an outdated identity
* The hidden grief of outgrowing old dreams
* How to redefine goals that align with your current self
✦ Reflection Prompts
* Where did my current goals originate—from vision or from survival?
* What am I chasing that I no longer truly want?
* How do I define success now, from this version of me?
✦ Action Steps
* Audit Your Ambition
* Write one big goal down. Ask: Was this set from fear or alignment?
* Reclaim the Metric
* Reword the goal so it reflects an identity-based outcome:
* “Instead of chasing ____, I want to become the kind of person who ____.”
* Practice Identity Alignment
* Look in the mirror and say:
* “I no longer have to stretch to prove.
* I’m building from who I actually am now.”
✦ Bonus Resource
Book a No-cost Success Blockers Call
We’ll pinpoint the old identities and outdated goals still driving your actions—so you can lead from wholeness, not hunger.
✦ On the Next Episode
Tomorrow, we’re peeling back another performance mask with:
“Your Highest Self is Probably Lying to You”
(How the ‘aspirational self’ can become a mask that blocks real evolution)
Because when your growth becomes a persona, not a process—you stop transforming and start performing.
✦ If You Loved Today’s Episode…
Here’s how to move deeper:
* Share this episode with someone who’s carrying too much out of pride or fear.
* Subscribe to Daily Power Boost for daily shifts in how you think, lead, and live.
* Join the R.E.A.L. Mastery™ Hub – The home of identity-based leadership and rhythm-based success. realmasteryhub.com
* Want to be coached live? Beyond the Boost is coming, comment or message me if you want to be considered.
✦ Engage With Me Online
* Instagram: @coachshawnmichael
* TikTok: @coachshawnmichael
* YouTube: @coachshawnmichael
* LinkedIn: @coachinguatemala
✦ References & Influences
* Steve Andreas, Transforming Your Self — on self-concept and the impact of outdated internal identity.
* Gay Hendricks, The Big Leap — on upper limit problems and hitting goals that don’t satisfy.
* Michael Gervais, Finding Mastery Podcast — on internal alignment vs performance metrics.
* Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection — on values-based living rather than perfectionistic goals.
* Seth Godin, The Practice — on letting go of external outcomes in favor of identity-based doing.