SUCCESS or HAPPINESS, What is FIRST And More Important? The unexpected answer. Are you happy because of success or are you successful because you enjoy what you're doing? There also seems to be a conflict of joy and success. Often you do things you don't enjoy for future success. What is wrong with this? When do your body and mind work together to their full potential? Why are you afraid of pain and suffering? What is the difference between pain and suffering? What is stress really?