In this insightful and entertaining episode, dating coach Evan Marc Katz shares so many obvious mindset shifts that help successful women. He opens up about his Love U course and why so many accomplished women have a “broken picker,” normalizing bad relationships. Evan explains that healthy love requires effort, not hard work, and that real happiness is built on comfort, fun, attraction, and emotional safety—not constant chemistry.The 1% dating pool myth and why looking for the “male version” of yourself rarely works. Flirting, building connection, and the value of patience—reminding us there’s no downside to waiting for the right person. 0:00 Introduction to Evan Marc Katz3:03 Love U course to help successful women with their picker7:00 Don’t normalize bad relationships9:28 Relationships take effort, not hard work10:10 Double standard, height, 1% dating pool17:10 What age range are you open to?21:37 Chemistry is a 6; go out with them again; comfort, fun, attraction22:33 4 things predict happiness25:00 Looking for the opposite sex version of you is not the answer28:40 Evan’s new checklist makes sense32:30 Flirt and make someone feel good38:10 Women and men want to feel desired39:50 Men need help but don’t ask for it44:39 No downside to waiting to get married49:10 Talking at a dinner party led him to his wife53:36 We don’t need speed in datingEvan Marc Katz became the world’s first dating coach in 2003, specializing in helping smart, successful women create lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U Podcast has over 3 million downloads and he has been featured in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, the New York Times, and the Wall St. Journal.Busy women don’t need more information; they need more love. More attention. More confidence. More support. If you’re exhausted by taking care of your man, your kids, your clients, and your parents, Evan Marc Katz shows you how to choose a partner who takes care of YOU. Over 13,000 women have graduated from Love U, Evan’s coaching program and community for [email protected] on IG and TT, evanmarckatzfan on FB, and I can be found on my own Love U Podcast. The special gift for my listeners www.evanmarckatz.com/may *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: [email protected]: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.