Can we talk about normal marital hatred?  Yes, that’s true it is normal. We explore the three phases of a long term relationship, look at how to hold each other in warm regard even as we suck and get curious about why our partner gets up our bum so badly.  Can you hold yourself and your partner in love even when you do sucky human things?  We explore what makes it so hard and give tips on how to get better.

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