Does God allow us to suffer because He’s mean? Or is it because He’s carving our character, clarifying our beliefs, and preparing us to live out the life He has planned? Sandra Glahn suffered through 10 lost pregnancies and several lost adoptions. In the midst of the pain, she couldn’t see what God was doing, and He seemed, frankly, . . . mean. But, in this interview, she explains how it all has made her more tender-hearted, ultimately more fulfilled in life, and she now knows the Lord in a way she never would have otherwise.