What is the bowl? Freestyling? What is a Salt Daddy? Find out in this episode! As Sugar Dating becomes more popular and the community grows, these terms begin to show up and solidify, while it can seem like a lot at first, it is helpful to become familiar with them to interact with others and ask questions within forums and communities.

Episode starts at 4:47

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What is somatic coaching? What does it involve? Rachel Overvoll uses a holistic, somatic approach to sexual healing and explains the benefits of involving your body rather than strictly your mind. In this episode Ellie and Rachel talk about religious trauma and how difficult and long the process can be, but also how important and worth it the process is. Learn about what Rachel does, offers, and how to connect with her below:

Connect with Rachel on IG: @rachelovervoll

Visit her website to find her book, view her courses, and work with her one-on-one: rachelovervoll.com

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Everyone knows what a happy ending massage is, why did I (Ellie) ALWAYS automatically picture and assume it is for cocks and penis owners? Massage is an awesome way to get things to turn sexual, sure, but how about treating yourself, as a vulva owner, to a full massage and orgasm with no other expectations? YUMMY. Listen to this episode to find out what the top seven (7) sexual fantasies are, something we can know thanks to Justin Lehmiller, the author of Tell Me What You Want who spent two years studying fantasies. You're not only healthy for having sexual fantasies, but normal! It is actually abnormal to NOT fantasize about all sorts of dirty, dirty things. Enjoy, blossoms!

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Holy bonkers, how did we get to episode FIFTY? Ellie and Andrew have an enlightening conversation all about first times and crazy experiences becoming sexual beings from religious and conservative upbringings. Sneaky woods sex, accidental anal, buying condoms, YouTube channels, and more!

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Ellie is back from...the dead? Not quite, but almost. This episode is spent discussing the beautiful act of aftercare with Andrew! What is aftercare? How do you do aftercare? Who SHOULD be doing it? All these things and more are talked about and discussed in episode 49 of Sugar Pussy.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

How do you finger? How do you eat a girl out? Should you use the alphabet method? So many questions. A woman's pleasure is a mystery, right? No! Ellie and Andrew both tell you tips and what you need to know about giving a woman pleasure in this episode of Sugar Pussy. Step by step, important considerations, why it is important to take seriously, and techniques to use on a clitoris or vagina to give the ultimate pleasure. 

*NOTE* in this episode both Ellie and Andrew use binary terms when discussing pleasure but we want to note that this is often incorrect. Vulva owners are not always she/her and penis owners are not always he/him. Please forgive these assumptions made as recording these it can often become easy to slip into habit. Sugar Pussy is inclusive to all and we hope that regardless of this, you are able to enjoy and learn from our content.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Vulva, clitoris, vagina: basically a wonderland of pleasure and treasure right? But what about for non vulva owners and people who haven't explored a woman's body before? Or, maybe you have but you just kinda yolo'd it? How to touch a woman can be intimidating! This episode covers all of the foundations. What are you looking at? Labia? Clit? Vagina? Isn't the whole thing a vagina? Who knows. It actually isn't rocket science! This episode answers questions about what everything is, the four different kinds of hymen (actually super important!) and more! Next week is all about pleasure. How to touch a vulva. How to lick a vulva. How to put your finger in. All the good stuff!

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Ghosted. Getting yelled at. Chlamydia. Cocaine. Blood...so much blood. And more. The stories Ellie hasn't told yet are here and I hope you're ready because you can't sugar date for 7 years and not get a little messy. Should she be shouting these into the abyss that is the internet? Probably not. But here they are for all your listening joy. 

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Pizza Delivery for Ellie? What could possibly go wrong? Listen to the 45th episode of Sugar Pussy to find out and learn all about the history of pornography. Ellie talks a lot in this episode. She goes all the way back to 28,000 years ago and looks at the timeline of porn all the way up to what the porn industry is like today. 

Read Sarah Chadwick's book The Sweetness of Venus: https://www.amazon.com/Sweetness-Venus-History-Clitoris/dp/1736298836

Listen to The Pros and Cons of Porn (Do We Know Things): https://www.doweknowthings.com/episodes/21-pros-and-cons-of-porn

Listen to The Butterfly Effect (Jon Ronson): https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Butterfly-Effect-Podcast/B08DDD6299

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Sources for this episode:

“The History of Pornography: From The Paleolithic to Pornhub”

https://medium.com/unusual-universe/the-history-of-pornography-from-the-paleolithic-to-pornhub-4123dbeef37e

“The Evolution of Pornography”

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/202007/the-evolution-pornography

“A brief and incredible history of porn”

https://www.dailydot.com/irl/history-of-porn/

“How Has Pornography Changed In The Last 10 Years?”

https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-has-porn-changed-in-the-last-10-years/

“The history of OnlyFans: how the controversial platform found success and changed online sex work”

https://www.insider.com/what-is-onlyfans-banning-content-work-porn-ban-history-sex-2021-9

“Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find It”

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn

“THE UNETHICAL HISTORY OF 70’S PORN”

https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/the-unethical-history-of-70s-porn

“Ethical porn — does it exist and who makes it?”

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-12-21/ethical-porn-does-it-exist-and-where-do-you-find-it/8091266

“The definition of pornography”

https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/porn/etc/definition.html

“Making Sense of Modern Pornography”

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2016/09/26/making-sense-of-modern-pornography

And of course…

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_magazine

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_film

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornography#History

Ellie and Paloma talk about the transition or influence that a lack of sex education and sexual openness growing up can have in creating sexuality professionals, discovering personal pleasure, what blocks many women from orgasming, and how Paloma balances working as a sex coach/sexologist and being herself and pursuing passions as a model.

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